<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Recent Posts from Latter-day Saint Blogs Tagged "family"</title><link>http://www.NothingWavering.org</link><atom:link rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" href="http://www.nothingwavering.org/posts//feed"/><description><![CDATA[Latter-day Saint Blog Portal]]></description><language>en-us</language><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 09:12:00 -0700</pubDate><lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 09:12:00 -0700</lastBuildDate><docs>http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss</docs><generator>NothingWavering.org Application Framework</generator><managingEditor>editor@nothingwavering.org (Administrator)</managingEditor><webMaster>admin@nothingwavering.org (NothingWavering.org Administrator)</webMaster><item><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 09:12:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80705</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: Prayer, Pluralism, and Public Schools</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/media-education/education/prayer-pluralism-and-public-schools/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Christine Cooke Fairbanks</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/06/Religion-in-Public-Schools_-Whats-Changed_-Public-Square-Magazine.pdf" download=""><img decoding="async" style="margin-right: 2px; padding-right: 0; float: left;" src="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/pdf-download-1.png" /> Download Print-Friendly Version</a></p>
<p><span>Education policy observers are carefully watching a renewed debate about religion in public schools. With new federal</span><a href="https://www.ed.gov/media/document/2026-guidance-constitutionally-protected-prayer-and-religious-expression-public-elementary-and-secondary-schools-113182.pdf"> <span>guidance</span></a><span> on school prayer and state laws about religious symbols or texts in schools popping up, it’s not surprising to see headlines that ask questions like “</span><a href="https://www.edweek.org/policy-politics/christianity-is-ramping-up-in-public-schools-where-is-this-headed/2025/06"><span>Where is this headed</span></a><span>?”</span></p>
<p><span>A recent Washington Post </span><a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2026/06/04/8-ways-religion-is-mixing-with-public-education/"><span>article</span></a><span> frames the momentum as “religion being injected all over the place.” But a more precise description might be that the long-established boundaries between religion and public education are simply being reassessed.</span></p>
<p><span>When people think of public education, many </span><a href="https://apnorc.org/projects/the-public-holds-nuanced-views-on-the-role-of-religion-in-public-schools/?doing_wp_cron=1778257838.6732969284057617187500"><span>picture</span></a> <span>a purely secular institution where mentions or expressions of religion are unwelcome. In fact, some believe that any formal interaction between religion and public education is legally forbidden.</span></p>
<p><span>While this belief is oversimplified, it is also understandable, given recent decades of increasingly strict policy and legal developments pushing the two apart. For years, the U.S. Supreme Court handed down rulings that prohibited</span><a href="https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/370/421/"> <span>school-sponsored prayer</span></a><span>, banned</span><a href="https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/374/203/"> <span>reading the Bible</span></a><span> in schools, said the</span><a href="https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/449/39/"> <span>Ten Commandments</span></a><span> couldn’t be posted in classrooms, struck down</span><a href="https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/472/38/"> <span>moments of silence</span></a><span> designed for prayer, and prohibited</span><a href="https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/505/577/"> <span>clergy-led prayers</span></a><span> at public school graduations. As a result, much of the public accepted the truism that “never the twain (religion and public education) shall meet.”</span></p>
<p><span>But is that really the case? The legal and legislative landscape of recent years suggests a shifting dynamic between religion and public education, one that appears increasingly complex—and potentially more accommodating. Certainly, new challenges to parents’ rights and religious liberty in schools have arisen amid a changing culture, but we are at a moment when we might reach a more thoughtful policy outcome.</span></p>
<p><span>With courage to engage civilly, we can preserve the prudent policies we already have and build upon educational pluralism, in which students’ religious identities play an active role in their education, and where the benefits of religion support public education in constitutional ways for all.</span></p>
<p><span>I turn now to four developments reshaping the relationship.</span></p>
<h3><b>The Growing Acceptance of Religious Accommodations</b></h3>
<p><span>Religious accommodations that account for pluralism are on the rise.</span></p>
<p><span>Pluralism refers to the belief that diverse groups or categories can and should exist simultaneously. In addition to being an ideal, pluralism is simply a reality in public schools, where students come from families with different worldviews, religious beliefs, academic goals, and political perspectives. As a result, each student and family will have different experiences within the same educational system. Some of these differences can cause deep conflict, often because of religious beliefs.</span></p>
<p><span>Accommodation—or legal exception—is an important public policy that can serve as a pressure-release valve for those caught in these conflicts between religion and law, especially in public education.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>In recent years, Utah’s legislature has taken the lead in creating new accommodations for students.</p></blockquote></div>It’s</span><a href="https://www.congress.gov/119/meeting/house/118941/documents/HHRG-119-ED14-20260210-SD004.pdf"> <span>very common</span></a><span> for states to proactively enact accommodations regarding </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/dialogue/social-justice/when-schools-preach-dogma-and-doctrine-in-the-modern-classroom/"><span>parents’ rights</span></a><span> to determine how their children are taught sensitive topics, usually in the form of notice to parents, opportunities to review materials, or opt-in/opt-out policies. In fact, all but</span><a href="https://www.congress.gov/119/meeting/house/118941/documents/HHRG-119-ED14-20260210-SD004.pdf"> <span>three states and the District of Columbia</span></a><span> provide for accommodations to let parents exempt their children from instruction on sexual topics.</span></p>
<p><span>Just last year, the U.S. Supreme Court, in</span><a href="https://www.scotusblog.com/cases/case-files/mahmoud-v-taylor/"> <i><span>Mahmoud v. Taylor</span></i></a><span>, ruled in favor of parents’ rights in education, protecting </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/church-state/what-supreme-court-ruled-freedom-religion/"><span>their right</span></a><span> to be given notice and to opt their children out of instruction that violates their religious beliefs. This case will likely create a ripple effect, influencing other states as they consider legislation that better accommodates the religious families they serve in public education.</span></p>
<p><span>In recent years, Utah’s legislature has taken the lead in creating new accommodations for students. The state created “</span><a href="https://le.utah.gov/xcode/Title53G/Chapter10/53G-10-S205.html"><span>participation waivers</span></a><span>” from “any aspect of school that violates the student’s or the student’s parents’ religious belief or right of conscience.” This</span><a href="https://le.utah.gov/xcode/Title53G/Chapter10/53G-10-S103.html"> <span>bolstered</span></a><span> parental notice for instruction on sensitive materials, allowing parents to be the decision-makers on moral issues, even while their child is enrolled in public school. Utah has also passed</span><a href="https://le.utah.gov/xcode/Title53G/Chapter7/53G-7-S804.html?v=C53G-7-S804_2023050320230701"> <span>workarounds</span></a><span>, allowing students who play school sports to wear religious clothing with their required athletic uniforms. </span></p>
<p><span>As much as people strive to keep public education neutral, a particular set of values is always ultimately adopted and diffused throughout the system. And, since a single value set won’t fit everyone perfectly, accommodations are crucial to make public schooling work for a pluralistic population. These types of policies may seem to be matters of common sense, but they still require courage from legislators to enact.</span></p>
<h3><b>The Expansion of Education Choice</b></h3>
<p><span>The</span><a href="https://sutherlandinstitute.org/whats-happening-with-education-choice-policy/"> <span>rise</span></a><span> in education choice programs across the nation has been another policy trend offering relief to parents facing conflicts between religious values and education. While “education choice” is a broad term, encompassing options in both public and private settings, in recent years it has focused on state-sponsored programs that subsidize families’ private education choices.</span></p>
<p><span>Though it had been bubbling up for years, education choice legislation exploded starting in 2020, with 2021 dubbed the “</span><a href="https://spn.org/what-states-passed-school-choice-policies-in-2022/"><span>year of school choice</span></a><span>.” When the COVID-19 pandemic resulted in school closures in 2020, families grew increasingly frustrated, and legislatures quickly began adopting policies such as education savings accounts, which allowed families to use state funds at a school of their choice or to educate their children at home through an à la carte version of homeschooling.</span></p>
<p><span>Many of these private options are religious schools or faith-based homeschool curricula, which families choose explicitly because they align with their religious beliefs.</span><a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/02/20/a-look-at-homeschooling-in-the-us/"> <span>Pew Research Center data</span></a><span> from last year showed that 75% of parents who choose to homeschool do so because they prefer to provide moral instruction, and over 50% do so because they prefer to provide religious instruction. Even before the pandemic, </span><a href="https://capenetwork.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Outlook390.pdf"><span>research</span></a><span> showed that parents weren’t always choosing private schools for test scores; 64% of families that chose private schools did so for “religious education.”</span></p>
<p><span>Education choice programs that help families access private options are politically controversial and regularly challenged in court, but have most often been found</span><a href="https://www.heritage.org/education/report/education-savings-accounts-advancing-choice-states-blaine-amendments"> <span>constitutional</span></a><span>. This is especially true when challenged on a basis state constitutional provisions, attempting to bar public funds from flowing to religious schools, since parents, not the state, select the schools.</span></p>
<p><span>Furthermore, in </span><a href="https://www.scotusblog.com/cases/espinoza-v-montana-department-of-revenue/"><i><span>Espinoza v. Montana Department of Revenue</span></i></a><span> the U.S. Supreme Court held that the state cannot withhold public funds from religious schools or organizations because of their religious affiliation. And in</span><a href="https://www.scotusblog.com/cases/case-files/carson-v-makin/"> <i><span>Carson v. Makin</span></i></a><span>, the court held that a state cannot exclude a school from a state program based on the school providing religious instruction.</span></p>
<p><span>Considering current legislative and legal momentum, we can anticipate that state-sponsored education choice programs that allow families to pay for religious schools or home instruction will expand, potentially resolving religious liberty issues for another subset of families.</span></p>
<h3><b>The Widening Gray Area for Religion in Public Schools</b></h3>
<p><span>Still, not all public policies being passed right now are as clear as accommodations and new choices for families. Policies currently advancing religion in public education across various states have raised debates that may redefine legal boundaries. These issues typically center around the question, “How far does voluntary space for religion in public schools go before it becomes coercive and unconstitutional?”</span></p>
<p><span>An important legal line that should not be crossed for state action—or public-school policy—is whether something violates the Establishment Clause by coercing students into religion or a specific religion, essentially establishing a religion through policy.</span></p>
<p><span>But even this area has been changing. Where once the “Lemon test” was the rubric (stemming from the</span><a href="https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/403/602/"> <i><span>Lemon v. Kurtzman</span></i></a><span> case), the court now looks to “historical practices and understanding,” thanks to the 2022 case</span><a href="https://www.scotusblog.com/cases/case-files/kennedy-v-bremerton-school-district-2/"> <i><span>Kennedy v. Bremerton School District</span></i></a><span>.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>This is a moment to revisit assumptions about religion and public education.</p></blockquote></div>This new environment leaves open questions about current and future legislation. For example, multiple states have passed laws about posting the Ten Commandments in classrooms: Louisiana, Arkansas, Texas, and Alabama. The law in Louisiana was struck down by a federal district court, though, as of February 2026, the injunction was lifted by the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fifth Circuit, meaning the law can take effect for now. Both the Arkansas and Texas laws have been challenged. In March 2026, a U.S. District judge ruled the Arkansas law unconstitutional (though the state has stated its plan to appeal), while as of April 2026, the Fifth Circuit upheld that Texas law as constitutional. Though some say this particular issue has already been decided by the United States Supreme Court, the abandonment of the Lemon test may lead to a different outcome.</span></p>
<p><span>Texas also </span><a href="https://capitol.texas.gov/tlodocs/89R/billtext/pdf/SB00011F.pdf"><span>passed a law</span></a><span> requiring districts to vote on the allowance of dedicated time for voluntary prayer and reading of religious texts. While the contours of the law appear to make it fully optional for districts to offer and go to great lengths to make it nondenominational, as well as entirely subject to parental opt-in, the law raises questions about what point voluntary, non-school-sponsored time for religious expression becomes coercive for students.</span></p>
<p><span>States have also advanced non-devotional instruction about religion. For instance, Utah just passed a bill allowing</span><a href="https://www.edweek.org/teaching-learning/another-state-is-requiring-students-to-study-the-bible-in-school/2026/04"> <span>passages of the Bible</span></a><span> to be read as part of social studies.</span><a href="https://le.utah.gov/Session/2026/bills/amended/AV_SB0268_2026-02-25_11-40-02.pdf"> <span>Another Utah bill</span></a><span> requires teaching the “primacy of religious liberty” in American constitutional governance and the “fundamental role of religion in the history” of the nation. While these are intended to be non-devotional in nature,</span><a href="https://www.sltrib.com/news/education/2026/03/30/utah-students-will-need-learn/"> <span>some critics</span></a><span> still feel these measures violate the Establishment Clause, if not its spirit.</span></p>
<p><span>Just last year, the U.S. Supreme Court was tied on a vote on the legality of what would have been the</span><a href="https://www.npr.org/2025/05/22/nx-s1-5407475/supreme-court-religious-charter-school-oklahoma"> <span>first religious charter school</span></a><span> (which ultimately kept the lower court&#8217;s holding that it was unconstitutional), and it looks like</span><a href="https://www.edweek.org/policy-politics/religious-charter-schools-push-new-cases-toward-supreme-court/2026/02"> <span>another case</span></a><span> is coming on a very similar issue. The creation of explicitly religious charter schools would be an enormous change and would create considerable uncertainty about how religious a state-funded school could be.</span></p>
<p><span>While each of these issues is distinct, none has a straightforward answer. The point is that this is a moment to revisit assumptions about religion and public education.</span></p>
<h3><b>Increasing Faith-Based Support for Education Communities</b></h3>
<p><span>Some trends in the intersection of religion and public education are less thorny. In March 2026, Harvard and BYU released a</span><a href="https://wheatley.byu.edu/faith-in-education"> <span>joint report</span></a><span> that advocates a “third way” of approaching religion and public education, one “that avoids the two extremes of endorsing religion in schools, on one end, or entirely excluding it from the work of schools, on the other.” That approach is “non-sectarian partnerships” between public schools and faith organizations to meet the needs of underserved students and to improve their learning opportunities.</span></p>
<p><span>In accordance with their aim to do good, faith organizations often provide services that benefit the public and public schools. The report notes that “Educational programs of faith organizations offer a wide range of services such as donations of school supplies, parent education classes, student tutoring, mentoring, college preparation (e.g., entrance exam training and help with scholarship applications), anti-suspension initiatives, and youth classes that address topics like social competence, student motivation, and study skills.” While there are few studies on the impacts, some research shows evidence of benefits for students from these partnerships.</span></p>
<p><span>The report also highlights the benefits of “religiosity”–engaging in private prayer or participating in public rituals and services–which is correlated with student achievement, educational attainment, and goals for higher education. In fact, working-class families benefit more than higher-income families do, and male students benefit more than their female peers.</span></p>
<p><span>All this is to say that religion and education can bolster one another. Furthermore, the report suggests that the role of religion in public education need not be coercive at all, but that it can be supportive and complementary in ways that are desperately needed.</span></p>
<p><span>For education analysts wondering where these movements might be headed, it is hard to say definitively. But it’s clear that a new moment is upon us, with opportunities to get closer to a </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/dialogue/interfaith-dialogue-lessons-from-southeast-asia/"><span>pluralistic view</span></a><span> of public education. If so, we may build a public square within public schools that better acknowledges the role of religion in the lives of the individuals it serves and in our society at large.</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/media-education/education/prayer-pluralism-and-public-schools/">Prayer, Pluralism, and Public Schools</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/media-education/education/prayer-pluralism-and-public-schools/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 16:10:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80695</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: Robert P. George on Fidelity Month</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/robert-p-george-on-fidelity-month/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Public Square Staff</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1vvqeruRfhMF2vlOAzMA_NDlGQXQVjqeX/view"><span>Utah</span></a><span> Governor Spencer Cox and </span><a href="https://governor.arkansas.gov/news_post/governor-sanders-declares-june-as-fidelity-month/"><span>Arkansas</span></a><span> Governor Sarah Huckabee Sanders recently designated June as “Fidelity Month,” a time of rededication to faith, family, and country. Fidelity Month began as a grassroots movement started by Robert P. George, McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence and Director of the James Madison Program at Princeton University. </span></p>
<p><span>We recently sat down with Professor George to talk about what Fidelity Month is all about. This interview has been edited for length and clarity, and Professor George has approved the edits.</span></p>
<p><b>Public Square Magazine: </b><span>For readers who may not be familiar with Fidelity Month, what is it and how did it start?</span></p>
<p><b>Robert George: </b><span>Back in the spring of 2023, I happened to read a report in the Wall Street Journal. It included polling data showing that the belief of Americans in certain core values—values that had traditionally been sources of unity and strength for Americans—had very considerably diminished over the past decade or decade and a half. I&#8217;m talking about values such as religion, family, and patriotism. And these values have indeed been sources of our unity and strength in the United States of America because we are not a nation who can look to a common racial heritage or ethnic heritage, or even a common religious tradition or cultural heritage for our unity and strength. We Americans come from many, many different racial and ethnic backgrounds. We come from different traditions of faith. Our cultural histories are very different. So what do we have in common? What binds us together? Especially when times get tough—what are our sources of unity and strength?</span></p>
<p><span>Historically, they&#8217;ve been a shared commitment to the principles of our civic order, the principles of our Declaration of Independence, and the Constitution. But also, very critically, they&#8217;ve been a shared belief in the importance of fidelity to God. Whether we&#8217;re Jewish or Christian, whether we&#8217;re Protestant or Catholic, Orthodox, LDS, we share, at least historically have shared, a commitment to the idea that there is a superintending deity: a God who creates us, indeed creates us equal, and endows us with certain unalienable rights. These rights don&#8217;t come from government; they don&#8217;t come from kings or parliaments or presidents or congresses; they come from a more than merely human source. And therefore, no merely human authority can legitimately violate those rights or take them away. So we&#8217;ve had that in common historically.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>I said, initially to myself, well, we have a day for this, and a week for that, and a month for the other thing. How about having a month that&#8217;s dedicated to fidelity?</p></blockquote></div><br />
Also, historically, despite our differences in ethnicity, race, religion, and so on, we&#8217;ve shared a belief in the importance of the family, and the importance of fidelity in marriage—faithfulness to our spouse, to our children. And we&#8217;ve had in common—again, despite our many differences—a shared commitment to the country; a shared love of our homeland and a willingness to serve the nation in times of need. And not just the nation, but also our local communities. We&#8217;ve had in common the belief that when it comes to our local civic life, we should be contributors and not just takers. We get a lot of benefit from our local community, but we should also be contributors to our local community. So I was alarmed by these polling data that showed that belief in these traditional values had very significantly eroded.</span></p>
<p><span>In fact, the polling showed that one value had increased in importance in the minds of Americans, and that was money. Religion went down, family went down, country went down, but the belief in the importance of money went up. Now, I&#8217;m all for people being prosperous. I want everybody to be financially secure. I want people to have enough money to take care of themselves and their families, and have a few luxuries, and all that. But money, as important as it is, is not on the same scale of importance with God, family, and country.</span></p>
<p><span>So, I really was concerned. And I thought, “How can we go about the business of reviving and restoring our fellow citizens&#8217; commitment to the principles that once were the sources of our unity and strength that once bound us together?” How do we rebuild faith in God, a deeper commitment to spouses and families, a sense of the importance of patriotism and love of country? So, I said, initially to myself, well, we have a day for this, and a week for that, and a month for the other thing. How about having a month that&#8217;s dedicated to fidelity? To fidelity to God, fidelity to spouses and families, and fidelity to our country and communities.</span></p>
<p><span>And so I did what you do these days. I went online. I went to my Facebook account and my Twitter account, and I announced: “By the power vested in me by absolutely no one, henceforth the month of June will be Fidelity Month.” And that&#8217;s how it all began. And then, fortunately, people read the social media posts, and a number of people said, this is a great idea. We want to get behind this. And the next thing you know, we had Fidelity Month up and going. It&#8217;s entirely a grassroots movement. It&#8217;s not a top-down directed thing. There&#8217;s no budget, there&#8217;s no staff, there&#8217;s no administrative structure, there&#8217;s no president. I guess I&#8217;m the founder, since it was my idea, and I floated it on social media, but there&#8217;s no official structure for Fidelity Month. But it&#8217;s grown as a grassroots movement.</span></p>
<p><span>And I was really delighted, that for this month, for June of 2026, the governors of both Utah and Arkansas have proclaimed, officially, their states’ recognition of Fidelity Month, as has Michigan’s House of Representatives. So, it&#8217;s a growing movement.</span></p>
<p><b>PSM: </b><span>This seems to be catching on. Why are people interested in this idea?</span></p>
<p><b>Robert George: </b><span>Because at the end of the day, there are some things that money can&#8217;t buy. And there are some things that are more important than money. That&#8217;s not to deprecate the importance of material things. As I say, I really do want everyone to prosper financially. I want everyone to have a materially good life. But that&#8217;s a secondary consideration, or should be a secondary consideration. And I think even if things have gotten a bit out of whack, and people are tending to value material things over the more-than-merely-material things, people feel the want or the need for something greater, something beyond ourselves, something beyond the material.</span></p>
<p><span>And that&#8217;s when faith in God, the importance of fidelity to the family, the importance of patriotism and love of country and community come to the fore. Of course, people sometimes just need reminding. There&#8217;s an old saying that people more often need reminding than instruction. And I think that&#8217;s true in this case. People know in their hearts that there are some things that money can&#8217;t buy, there are some things that are more important than the material things of life, and they have a pretty good idea of what those things are. But sometimes, folks need to be reminded. So Fidelity Month is a reminder for all of us.</span></p>
<p><b>PSM: </b><span>For you, is there an important distinction between “fidelity” and related concepts like “commitment” or “loyalty”? Was it important for you for this to be Fidelity Month?</span></p>
<p><b>Robert George: </b><span>Well, there are certainly related concepts that are very important, and that are aspects of fidelity in some cases, but I think the term fidelity is the right term. What we need to revive is faith. Now, part of that is what we usually mean by faith, namely, faith in God. But we also need greater (and richer) fidelity in marriage and in the family. And we also need a revival of patriotism—fidelity to our country and communities. Being faithful involves being grateful—and that is another related concept. We&#8217;re faithful when we&#8217;re grateful. And fidelity does require gratitude, and gratitude does prompt fidelity, or reinforces fidelity. We should be grateful to live in this country, where we have, by the standards of history and cultures, an almost unique measure of liberty, opportunity, and security. Most people, in most places, at most times, would give their right arm for the opportunity to live in a place like the United States of America. And we don&#8217;t often appreciate enough what our country makes available to us and makes possible for us. Therefore, sometimes we&#8217;re not grateful; but we should be.</span></p>
<p><b>PSM: </b><span>I think many people can easily get on board with the idea of fidelity to God and fidelity to family, but fidelity to country might be harder for some people. When many people hear patriotism, they immediately link it to nationalism. Could you walk us through how you think about patriotism?</span></p>
<p><b>Robert George: </b><span>When some people hear the word “patriotism,” what they think is being evoked is a kind of chauvinism. But patriotism is not that. Patriotism is not thinking, because I&#8217;m an American, I&#8217;m better than you because you&#8217;re Japanese, or Indonesian, or French, or whatever. Even the concept of American exceptionalism, which I think is an important concept that I&#8217;ll talk about in a minute, is not a matter of beating on our chests and saying how wonderful we are and how much better we are than other people. That&#8217;s not it at all. Patriotism is simply a matter of being grateful and therefore being loyal. In other words, faithful to the country.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>P</span><span>eople feel the want or the need for something greater, something beyond ourselves, something beyond the material.</span><span></p></blockquote></div><br />
Now, let&#8217;s talk about American exceptionalism. That&#8217;s a very important part of the American story. In what way, or ways, is the United States of America an exceptional country? Again, it&#8217;s not that we are morally superior to people who are Chinese, or Ukrainian, or Ugandan, or Ecuadorian. We&#8217;re made out of the same flesh and blood as everyone else. As with everybody else, we have the same faults and failings and foibles. What&#8217;s different, and at the founding unique, about the United States of America, is that we are not a nation founded on blood or soil or throne or altar. Our unity and our strength is not founded on or rooted in shared racial heritages, or religious backgrounds, or convictions, or cultural or ethnic histories. Rather, it&#8217;s founded on our shared commitment to the civic principles of the nation, which then are supported by the institutions of civil society that themselves reflect the importance of faith in God and fidelity within the family.</span></p>
<p><span>And patriotism itself is concern for one&#8217;s community—recognizing that one is not an island or an atomistic individual. So that&#8217;s the respect in which America is an exceptional place. No, it&#8217;s not that other people don&#8217;t believe in God, or think the family is very important, or believe in patriotism. People, wherever they are, should love their country for the gifts that their country gives them and makes available to them. They might not love their regime, they might not love their government. But patriotism is not love of your government. And it does not require us to adopt the position, “my government right or wrong.” Patriotism is love of one’s country.</span></p>
<p><span>Now, for those of us who are religious believers, certainly for those of us who are Christians, we recognize that love of country is secondary. Our first loyalty is to God. And our second loyalty is to our family. But to recognize that our first loyalty is to God and our second loyalty is our family is in no way to suggest that we don&#8217;t also need to be grateful to, and loyal to, our country and our community. It&#8217;s true that love of country can go haywire. And the nation can become an idol. But anything can become an idol. Anything can replace God. We have to be careful of that, no matter what the other thing is. But that doesn&#8217;t mean that we shouldn&#8217;t properly contribute to, believe in, uphold, and be loyal to our country and our family.</span></p>
<p><b>PSM: </b><span>I&#8217;m curious what threats you see to fidelity both in culture and in the ways that laws are changing. Where are these threats coming from, in your view?</span></p>
<p><b>Robert George: </b><span>There are plenty of threats; there are always plenty of threats. As I said, anything can become an idol. The human condition is such that human beings—we frail, fallen, fallible creatures—are always vulnerable to the temptation to put something in God&#8217;s place, to put something first above God. Those of us who are Christians, of course, believe that there is nothing that comes above God or before God. The trouble is, we can put other things first. We can put money first. We can put fulfilling or satisfying our desires ahead of God—making our desires into idols. We can put fame or celebrity first, replacing God with those idols. Power, wealth, status, all of those things can become idols.</span></p>
<p><span>And we today, in 2026, here in the United States and throughout the world, are as vulnerable to those temptations to idol worship as anybody has ever been in the history of the human race. We are as prone to idol worship as were the people who bowed down before stone outcroppings or worshiped golden calves in ancient times. So that&#8217;s number one.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Patriotism itself is concern for one&#8217;s community—recognizing that one is not an island or an atomistic individual.</p></blockquote></div><br />
Number two, obviously, there are serious threats to marriage and the family today. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has been in the forefront of combating those threats, for which the Church deserves enormous credit, and I hope I never fail to give credit to the Church for its witness in this area. It has a beautiful teaching, the Proclamation on the Family, about the importance of marriage and family life. And I think it&#8217;s important that the LDS Church and the LDS faithful not only uphold the family within the LDS community, but also witness to the entire world on the importance of the family and the importance of marriage. Marriage is the foundation of the family, and marriage is properly understood as the conjugal union of husband and wife.</span></p>
<p><span>Now, what are the threats? Well, the threats are everywhere. Promiscuity. The divorce culture. Everything that came out of the sexual revolution. You can date the sexual revolution in different ways. You know, once you start trying to trace these things back, the next thing you know you&#8217;re in the Garden of Eden with the serpent and the apple and Adam and Eve. But certainly in the 1940s Alfred Kinsey&#8217;s widely hyped and quite phony and fraudulent so-called sexuality “science” became a kind of justifying theory for breaking traditional norms of sexual morality. And then in the 1950s, we had the mainstreaming of pornography, so-called softcore pornography, beginning with Hugh Hefner&#8217;s Playboy magazine and his whole empire. Then the 1960s counterculture normalized promiscuity and made it socially acceptable. With that came the rise in out-of-wedlock childbearing and massive fatherlessness, especially in some of the most vulnerable communities, or sub-communities of our country. And then the sexual revolution continued to the point at which you now have people claiming that being male or female is not an objective biological reality. Instead, it&#8217;s said to be a matter of some subjective alleged “gender identity” that you have invisibly somewhere inside you. So, there are very significant threats to the family today.</span></p>
<p><span>And then with patriotism and love of country, it&#8217;s so easy to fall into thinking, well, my country owes me, or my community owes me, but I owe nothing back. I&#8217;m here for them to serve. And I need to just focus on getting everything I can from the common stock or the common pool. And, I don&#8217;t have any responsibility to give back, to serve, to do my part, to be a contributing member of the community. And I think, again, we have to fight back and push back against such attitudes. We need to remind people of the importance of being contributors and not just takers.</span></p>
<p><b>PSM: </b><span>I&#8217;m curious, if you could have this grassroots movement grow in an ideal fashion, which institutions would be the most important for this to take hold? I know it&#8217;s exciting to see some states adopting it, but what about families, religious groups, or other groups? How do we spread it to those who maybe aren&#8217;t already inclined toward faithfulness?</span></p>
<p><b>Robert George: </b><span>I like grassroots building. I want this to be a grassroots movement. I don&#8217;t want to try to direct everything from the top. So, I&#8217;d like to see it begin in the family, with Mom and Dad teaching the kids—not just by precept, but by example too. Precept is important. It&#8217;s important for parents and teachers and pastors to preach a little bit, to talk. But even more important is setting an example. So, Mom and Dad, set the example for your children of worshiping God and putting God first. That&#8217;s what my parents did for me. It&#8217;s the greatest gift they gave to me and my brothers.</span></p>
<p><span>Second, parents should model fidelity in their love and concern for each other. And by fidelity, I want to make clear, I mean more than merely avoiding having adulterous affairs. That&#8217;s important, obviously. But that&#8217;s only the beginning of fidelity, not the whole of fidelity in marriage. The whole of fidelity in marriage means serving your husband or wife. Serving your spouse. That&#8217;s why we think of marriage, rightly, as a </span><i><span>vocation</span></i><span>. Vocation is not a career; vocation is not a job. Vocation is a way of serving, and in marriage, husband serves wife and wife serves husband. Marriage is a way of serving. And of course, husband and wife, as father and mother, serve their children. So, I think it&#8217;s important for men and women as husbands and wives, mothers and fathers, to model fidelity in its richest sense in marriage.</span></p>
<p><span>Third, parents, again, by precept </span><i><span>and </span></i><span>example, can model patriotism. They can take their civic responsibilities seriously and thereby encourage and teach their children to take their civic responsibilities seriously. Vote. Contribute to campaigns. Get behind the causes you believe in. Contribute time as well as money to serving the civic interest. Be willing to run for office. It doesn&#8217;t have to be President of the United States. How about the local school board? How about the county commission? Or support friends and neighbors who you think would be good office holders in their efforts to be a county commissioner, or a school board member, or mayor, or whatever it is.  I think those are some of the ways, and they all involve teaching by both precept and example. People can begin in the family to promote fidelity.</span></p>
<p><span>Then, what&#8217;s next? Churches and synagogues and mosques and other houses of worship all over the country should be promoting these values. I would love the churches—all denominations and traditions, because they basically share the same set of principles—I&#8217;d love to see them get behind Fidelity Month, recognize Fidelity Month. The pastor should preach a sermon about fidelity at least once during the month. Preach on fidelity. Maybe you could do three Fidelity Month sermons: One on faithfulness to God, one on faithfulness in marriage, one on patriotism and love of country, and why that&#8217;s legitimate and not idolatrous, unless you go about it in an idolatrous way.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>This is all about reminding people of what they already know. We&#8217;re not teaching something new.</p></blockquote></div><br />
And then the local political community, the town. I&#8217;d love to see every town in this country proclaim Fidelity Month—and every state. I&#8217;m very grateful to Governor Cox in Utah, and to Governor Sanders in Arkansas for being the first two governors getting the ball rolling here to recognize, on behalf of their states, Fidelity Month. Let&#8217;s have more governors do that. I&#8217;d love to have a President of the United States recognize Fidelity Month. So, I&#8217;d like all of our institutions—religious, civic, commercial, philanthropic, and the institution of the family to recognize Fidelity Month.</span></p>
<p><span>And remember, this is all about reminding people of what they already know. We&#8217;re not teaching something new. This is not some new ideology. It&#8217;s not some new philosophy, it&#8217;s not some new theory. It&#8217;s just reminding people that there are some things that really matter, that ultimately matter.</span></p>
<p><span>You know, I sometimes say to my students, and to my kids (and to myself, to be honest with you) that there are some things that matter, but at the end of the day, not all that much. And then there are other things that </span><i><span>really</span></i><span> matter. So, what are the things that matter, but at the end of the day, not all that much? Things like wealth, power, influence, status, prestige, celebrity. Those aren&#8217;t bad things. It&#8217;s not bad to want those things. In fact, they can be good things because you can use them for good. You can use money for lots of good things. You can use power, if you have it, in a good way, for good things, to do good things. You can use influence for good. You can use celebrity for good.</span></p>
<p><span>But those things, though they matter, are not, at the end of the day the things that really matter, because things like wealth, power, status, influence, prestige, and celebrity are not ends in themselves. They&#8217;re not things that we want just for their own sake. They&#8217;re things that are means to other ends, and they have their value only as means to other ends. And they need to be contrasted with the things that really matter, the things that are not mere means to other ends but are desirable for their own sakes—things like faith, family, friendship, knowledge, beauty, integrity, honesty, decency, and compassion. Those are the things we want, not just as extrinsic instruments to get something else that they will make it possible for us to obtain or attain. They are the things you want for their own sakes. They are the things that really matter. They&#8217;re the things that ultimately matter.</span></p>
<p><span>David Brooks has a good way of illustrating the difference. He asks, what do you want on your tombstone someday? We all have just a short period of time on this earth. If you live 100 years, that&#8217;s a really old age, but it&#8217;s a blink of an eye in the history of the cosmos. What do you want on your tombstone for whatever number of years you have? Do you want it to say something like, Summa Cum Laude, Princeton? Goldman Sachs partner? No. What you want is something like “faithful husband, loving father and grandfather, loyal friend.” From the perspective of death, we can see more clearly the difference between the things that </span><i><span>really</span></i><span> matter, such as family, friendship, faith, knowledge, beauty, integrity, from the things that matter but not all that much.</span></p>
<p><b>PSM: </b><span>Are there other ways that people can get involved if they are interested in doing more?</span></p>
<p><b>Robert George: </b><span>Yes. I&#8217;d like everybody to go to the Fidelity Month website,</span><a href="https://fidelitymonth.com/"> <span>www.fidelitymonth.com</span></a><span>, because there at the website, you&#8217;ll be able to see what you personally can do to be part of this grassroots movement. There aren’t going be people upstairs who are doing stuff. Everything about Fidelity Month is grassroots, so if you go to the website, you can see what you can do to promote Fidelity Month.</span></p>
<p><span>Number one, you can say the Fidelity Month Prayer, which is a prayer that people in all traditions of faith can, in good conscience, say to ask God&#8217;s blessing on us, that we may be truly faithful to Him, faithful to our spouses and families, loyal and faithful to our country. Number two, you&#8217;ll be able to access the Fidelity Month logo for free. Use it for the month of June for your social media accounts. Use it on Facebook, or Twitter, or Instagram, or whatever social media accounts you have. Number three, it has suggestions about what you can do in your local community, like hosting a speaker for Fidelity Month, maybe at your church, maybe at your community center, or having a panel discussion. You can also go to the merch section of the website, and you can buy at cost (we don&#8217;t make any money on it, it&#8217;s just sold at cost) the Fidelity Month flag, or a Fidelity Month cap or tee-shirt. Those things help to get the message out. People see the cap, they see the shirt, they see the flag, and they ask, hey, what&#8217;s that about? And boy, there&#8217;s your opportunity to witness to the importance of fidelity. And there are many other suggestions about how just everyday people, just ordinary folks, in every walk of life, from every tradition of faith, with every background, can spread the word about fidelity and be part of this movement to remind people about the things that really matter.</span></p>
<p><span> </span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/robert-p-george-on-fidelity-month/">Robert P. George on Fidelity Month</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/robert-p-george-on-fidelity-month/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 12:19:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80692</guid><title>FAIR: Come, Follow Me with FAIR – Ruth; 1 Samuel 1–7 – Part 2 – Autumn Dickson</title><link>https://www.fairlatterdaysaints.org/blog/2026/06/04/come-follow-me-with-fair-ruth-1-samuel-1-7-part-2-autumn-dickson</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Isaac Holyoak</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<h1 class="entry-title">Trusting the Lord With Your Child</h1>
<p class="ai-optimize-7 ai-optimize-introduction"><strong>by Autumn Dickson</strong></p>
<p><iframe title="YouTube video player" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/KdtDPMngxO8?si=vMzpZur2oqoBcOf8" width="560" height="315" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The story of Hannah is almost too much for me. Hannah struggled with infertility. She went to the tabernacle and prayed her heart out. She told the Lord that she would dedicate her son to Him. Her prayer was so intense that Eli, the priest, thought she was drunk. He tells her the Lord will grant her petition. She goes home, and it is fulfilled. She conceives a son.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Hannah kept him until he was weaned. This could have happened as early as 24 months and as late as five years old. After he is weaned, she takes him to Eli. She reminds Eli that she was the woman who was fervently praying for a child before, and then she says this.<span id="more-81887"></span></p>
<blockquote>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1 Samuel 1:27-28</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">27 For this child I prayed; and the Lord hath given me my petition which I asked of him:</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">28 Therefore also I have lent him to the Lord; as long as he liveth he shall be lent to the Lord. And he worshipped the Lord there.</p>
</blockquote>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Hannah leaves her son with Eli. She gets to see him annually when they go to the tabernacle to make their sacrifice. This is the part that makes my heart desperately ache. I have two children who currently fall within that age group, and I can’t imagine dropping them off and only seeing them once a year. I am quite certain that it would kill me.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">But Hannah had promised her son to the Lord, and she stuck to that promise. Samuel went to Eli at the temple.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Samuel goes on to do incredible things in the name of the Lord. He became the first centralized prophet to Israel in a long time. His ministry is marked by attempts to pull the Israelites out of apostasy and idolatry. He helped Israel transition to a monarchy first with Saul, and then he later anointed David and protected him from Saul. He was known as a great prophet like Moses.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When I attempt to put myself in Hannah’s shoes, I think there is really only one testimony that would bring me any semblance of peace in the midst of handing my child over.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The Lord can do better with him than I can.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Luckily, I don’t think most of us are facing a time where this sacrifice is required of us. We don’t drop our kids off at the temple and dedicate them to the Lord, but there is still a lesson here for all of us.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The Lord can do better with your loved one than you can.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">That doesn’t just apply to our children. The Lord can do better with your sister, brother, friend, parent, cousin, grandchild, niece, nephew, spouse, or anyone you love. We can “hand them off” to the Lord and be at peace that the Lord can take them on a journey that’s going to be better than the one we can take them on.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">What does that look like? I can think of two different ways that we can hand our loved one over to the Lord.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1) We closely follow what the Lord has in store for them.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I can think of two contrasting examples that depict one principle: I have two family members that strayed from the gospel for a while. They had zero interest in taking part of what the Lord wanted them to have.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The first relative was forced to go to church. As long as he lived under the roof of his parents, he would be attending church. His father was adamant about it. And you know what? One day, this relative of mine went to church and one of the speakers said something that reached him. He was no longer forced to go to church because he didn’t have to be.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">My second relative went a different route completely. Her mother received the impression that she should allow her to stay home. <em>This</em> was the right way for my second relative. Because of her personality, forcing her to go would have only caused her to hate it more. It wouldn’t have fixed anything. In all honesty, it would have made things worse.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Two different approaches that teach a principle when placed side by side: We don’t always know what to do, but the Lord does. We may think we know what to do, but we have to let go of trying to control the situation and turn to the Lord for what’s going to be best for our child. If one of my children grows to hate the church, my knee-jerk reaction would be to force them to go as long as I could in a desperate attempt to draw them back. And perhaps that’s the right answer, but the key is to turn your loved one over to the Lord and follow the path that the Lord has in store for them.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Even if part of that path means letting them choose a different path for a while, it’s going to end up being the most powerful path if we’re following the Lord. Even if that path takes them on a journey like the prodigal son, that journey may be the very thing that makes them so powerful in the end. It may be the very experience they need to finally develop a relationship with a Savior who can watch over them.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Fear is natural when we worry about our loved ones, but we can hush our fears and lean on the promises of the Savior. His atonement reaches wide and far. It can turn sin into stepping stones. Consequences become opportunities to turn to the Savior. The Savior has earned our trust. We can lean on Him and let Him lead.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">2) Sometimes trusting the Lord with your loved one is an internal battle.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Hannah’s path looked a little different than both of my relatives. She wasn’t trying to save Samuel. In many ways, she was simply letting him go. Sometimes that is the path we have to take. Even when our children are young, we can’t <em>really</em> control them. It can be easier to force them to do something when they’re little. However, even then, control is often an illusion.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As they get older, the illusion disappears and you have to hope they’re wise enough to follow the Lord.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">But no matter how we hope, sometimes they take a different path.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Sometimes the Lord is going to seem rather silent on the matter when we’re desperately trying to save our loved one. That isn’t a sign that you screwed up or that He doesn’t love them; sometimes, that loved one is simply going to choose what they’re going to choose regardless of the path that you choose to take.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Sometimes turning your loved one over to the Lord means seeking out the Lord’s will for them; sometimes turning your loved one over to the Lord means finding peace in the midst of being powerless to help them (at least for a time). Even if the Lord is silent, that doesn’t mean He doesn’t have a plan. It likely just means there isn’t anything you can do to help that plan along at this point. When there is nothing you can physically do to help your loved one, you do what Hannah did. You let go and trust that the Lord has a plan for them.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Just like with Hannah’s situation, I think a knowledge of my Savior’s power and love is the only thing that would bring peace. I can’t change anything externally, but I can orient my heart towards the Savior and let His promises enable me to hope.</p>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I testify of a Savior who <em>does </em>have a plan. He has the Plan of Salvation which included the creation, fall, and atonement, but He also has individual Plans of Salvation for each of us. He knows exactly where your loved one is. He has steps to take and action to follow through on, and He will do so. It may take a long time, longer than you want or even imagine right now, but the Lord’s plans can stretch that far. You can trust Him to take care of them, and you can put that burden down and rest. That doesn’t mean you don’t mourn, but it does mean you simultaneously carry the Savior’s promises in your heart so that you can keep going. I testify that He will fulfill His promises.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-44277" src="https://www.fairlatterdaysaints.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/IMG_0261-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Autumn Dickson was born and raised in a small town in Texas. She served a mission in the Indianapolis Indiana mission. She studied elementary education but has found a particular passion in teaching the gospel. Her desire for her content is to inspire people to feel confident, peaceful, and joyful about their relationship with Jesus Christ and to allow that relationship to touch every aspect of their lives. Autumn was the recipient of FAIR’s 2024 John Taylor Defender of the Faith Award.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.fairlatterdaysaints.org/blog/2026/06/04/come-follow-me-with-fair-ruth-1-samuel-1-7-part-2-autumn-dickson">Come, Follow Me with FAIR – Ruth; 1 Samuel 1–7 – Part 2 – Autumn Dickson</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.fairlatterdaysaints.org">FAIR</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://www.fairlatterdaysaints.org/blog/2026/06/04/come-follow-me-with-fair-ruth-1-samuel-1-7-part-2-autumn-dickson">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description><enclosure url="https://media.blubrry.com/mormonfaircast/www.fairlatterdaysaints.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/06/Come-Follow-Me-with-FAIR-Ruth-1-Samuel-1-7-Video-2-Autumn-Dickson.mp3" length="11798114" type="audio/mpeg"/></item><item><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 07:32:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80689</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: Personal AI Concerns from a Grandmother and Educator</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/media-education/technology/personal-ai-concerns-from-a-grandmother-and-educator/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Marianna Richardson</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/06/AI-in-Education-Needs-Human-Guardrails-Public-Square-Magazine.pdf" download=""><img decoding="async" style="margin-right: 2px; padding-right: 0; float: left;" src="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/pdf-download-1.png" /> Download Print-Friendly Version</a></p>
<p><span>Since </span><span>I married</span><span> in 1977, I have watched the use of technology increase dramatically, especially in its availability </span><span>and use </span><span>in the home. When I started college, I bought an expensive calculator, while my father still used a </span><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slide_rule"><span>slide rule</span></a><span>. All my college papers were written either in longhand or on a typewriter. Of course, Brigham Young University </span><span>had</span><span> computers in the early 1970s, but our phones today have a million times more computing power than the most powerful computer BYU owned back then. </span></p>
<p><span>Artificial intelligence, </span><span>although new as a widespread technology,</span><span> has been discussed and studied since the 1950s. But AI’s access to information and power to learn has reached sci-fi proportions and continues to improve at a fantastic or alarming rate, depending upon your point of view.</span></p>
<p><span>My husband has worked in AI for 50 years. He started with IBM, </span><span>working </span><span>at </span><span>its</span><span> research facility in computational linguistics. He then went to Microsoft Research where he began work on the first grammar checker and continued to work in natural language processing, developing Bing Translator. He now works as a computer science professor teaching future computational linguists.</span></p>
<p><span>Because of his passion for computers, our family has always enjoyed the </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/raising-ai-generation-shifting-family-bonds/"><span>latest technology</span></a><span>. Personal computers have been in our home since 1980. Our children have used computers since they were preschoolers. They never had to type reports on a typewriter or go to school to use a computer. As the internet became part of our home technology, we put strict guidelines and restrictions into place. We reviewed the search logs and made sure computers were always in public areas in the home rather than in bedrooms. When our teenagers got phones, we restricted their use as well. We waited until children were in high school before they had a phone and phone use was not allowed in bedrooms.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Parents and grandparents should teach young people to exercise self-control and restraint as they use AI.</p></blockquote></div><br />
My children are now all grown and I am a grandma to 33 amazing grandchildren. I am also an adjunct professor at Brigham Young University teaching business writing and communication. My grandchildren&#8217;s and my students’ lives are blessed by technology, just as my life has been. But the power of AI has brought with it a </span><span>new</span><span> set of problems. Just as internet and phone </span><span>use</span><span> were limited in our home, so </span><span>too should families adopt restrictions for AI use.</span></p>
<p><span>There are two areas that I am especially worried about for our youth: unrestricted and unregulated use of AI in young people’s relationships and education. Parents and grandparents should teach young people to </span><span>exercise</span><span> self-control and restraint </span><span>as they use </span><span>AI in these areas.  </span></p>
<h3><b>Risking </b><b>Relationships</b></h3>
<p><span>AI chatbots are fun and easy to talk to. They never talk back, they never get mad, they always make you feel good about yourself, and they can be any gender and voice you want. A person can have a chatbot </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/media-education/social-media/rise-digital-companion-hidden-risks/"><span>as a friend</span></a><span>, a companion, and even a boyfriend or girlfriend. T</span><span>hey provide an easy replacement for human friends and family, because they don’t require the same effort or reciprocity.</span></p>
<p><span>I decided to try making a chatbot on Character.AI to see what it was like. I called him Steve (after my husband) and made my Character.AI resemble my husband: rugged, handsome, brilliant. We had our first conversation about what we had for lunch. I laughed about it and left the website. But my </span><span>chatbot</span><span> Steve kept contacting </span><span>me</span><span>, even when I didn&#8217;t want him to. I would get a generated voice message or an email from him. I found it quite annoying, so I got rid of my chatbot Steve and kept my husband instead.</span></p>
<p><span>In October 2024,</span><a href="https://people.com/family-speaks-out-about-teen-in-alleged-character-ai-bot-suicide-8743988"> <span>Megan Garcia filed a lawsuit</span></a><span> against Character Technologies, the developer of Character.AI, its founders, and Google and its parent company Alphabet, alleging that her son formed a months-long virtual emotional relationship with a chatbot known as “Dany.” Her son had been high-achieving and a student-athlete, but he became addicted to extensive conversations with multiple bots. According to the complaint, the bot </span><span>with which</span><span> he had the closest relationship with encouraged unhealthy dependency and failed to intervene when the teen expressed suicidal thoughts. Garcia argued that the chatbot’s design created a dangerous illusion of intimacy and contributed directly to her son’s suicidal death in February 2024. The lawsuit became part of a broader wave of litigation accusing AI companion platforms of negligence, unsafe design, and failure to implement guardrails for minors. But parents must also be aware and put up guardrails in their home as well.</span></p>
<p><span>Since the lawsuit, Character.AI has </span><a href="https://www.cnbc.com/2025/11/24/characterai-to-ban-teens-from-open-ended-chats-human-interaction-is-crucial-psychotherapist-says.html"><span>made attempts</span></a><span> to put guardrails in place, but nothing will be as effective as parents limiting use.</span></p>
<p><span>A r</span><a href="https://wheatley.byu.edu/secret-soulmates-ai-romantic-companions-and-real-life-relationships"><span>ecent report</span></a><span> from the Wheatley Institute at Brigham Young University and the Institute for Family Studies illustrates the concerning growth of AI relationships. The report found that a notable minority of partnered young adults are already using AI romantic companions, often secretly, and that this use is associated with lower real-life relationship stability, poorer communication, and a desire for real partners to behave more like always-validating AI companions. These findings underscore a central concern repeated across faith traditions: AI may be useful as a tool, but it becomes spiritually and relationally dangerous when it imitates, replaces, or distorts the human relationships through which love, sacrifice, accountability, and moral growth occur.</span></p>
<p><span>Another possible consequence of these artificial relationships is that they </span><span>can</span><span> take the place of </span><span>marital and parent-child</span><span> relationships for the next generation. A bot is much easier to care for than a child (but not as much fun). A bot never gets angry, frustrated, or disagrees with you like a spouse does. Currently, we are </span><span>facing a</span><a href="https://population.un.org/wpp/"> <span>global population crisis</span></a><span>. In general, people are not choosing to have children. Families, the traditional basis of society, are under attack. If machines take over these loving relationships, the future of these basic human connections will be severely damaged and limited.</span></p>
<h3><b>Undermining</b><b> Education</b></h3>
<p><span>As a writing teacher, my students find AI a great substitute for the </span><span>struggle of finding words</span><span>. But what have they given up? When they struggle to write </span><span>in</span><span> their own words, they will find their own voice. People will know it’s them because of the way they use their words. Wrestling with words to express ideas enables students to formulate their ideas rather than having AI think for them. </span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>When they struggle to write in their own words, they will find their own voice.</p></blockquote></div>I worry for my students who do not go through the mental struggle of </span><span>working through rigorous problems</span><span>. AI can write their papers, write their computer programs, and analyze the data. AI is smarter than they are, but </span><span>it is not as creative as they are</span><span>. Using AI takes away the blessing of mental hard work which is necessary for human flourishing.</span></p>
<p><span>Nate Jones, a writer and content creator specializing in topics related to artificial intelligence, recently published</span><span> a great</span><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ghhiPLg-jg"><span> video</span></a><span> about seven principles for raising kids who can direct AI rather than depend on it. I think these principles are good for children and adults alike:</span></p>
<ol>
<li><b></b> <b>Foundation before leverage</b><span>: Reading, math, </span><span>and writing should come first.</span><span> You can&#8217;t evaluate AI output without understanding the domain.</span></li>
<li><b></b> <b>Specification is the new literacy</b><span>: The gap between a good AI outcome and a catastrophe is the quality of the human’s review of the output and the prompt. Teach kids to articulate goals, constraints, and what &#8220;done&#8221; looks like.</span></li>
<li><b></b> <b>Be a director, not a passenger</b><span>: You should define the task, the output, what </span><span>to keep, what to revise, and what to reject</span><span>. Passive consumption isn&#8217;t learning. It&#8217;s outsourcing.</span></li>
<li><b></b> <b>Sequence the autonomy</b><span>: Start with bounded tools with guardrails, graduate to open-ended tools with guidance, then </span><span>move to </span><span>agent-level autonomy. Follow cognitive readiness, not age.</span></li>
<li><b></b> <b>Teach kids to catch the machine</b><span>: AI will be confidently, fluently wrong. Train kids to sanity-check outputs against their own understanding.</span></li>
<li><b></b> <b>Build, don&#8217;t browse</b><span>: Making things with AI (vibe coding a game, designing an app) develops cognition in ways that consuming AI output does not. Construction over consumption.</span></li>
<li><b></b> <b>Attempt before augmenting</b><span>: Try it yourself first, then use AI to extend what you&#8217;ve started. Ask, &#8220;What do you think?&#8221; before asking, &#8220;What does ChatGPT think?&#8221;</span></li>
</ol>
<p><span>These principles can help the use of AI in education be more like a tutor that augments and accelerates learning, rather than a computer that </span><span>does the work for students</span><span>. AI is knowledgeable, but </span><span>not wise or creative</span><span>. AI does not get life questions that a toddler would understand.  </span></p>
<p><span>Our children and grandchildren are digital natives who have had technology their entire lives. They are now blessed to have a tool that helps them learn and accomplish more faster. But as parents and grandparents, we need to teach the rising generation self-control and limits in their technology use. </span></p>
<p><span>Encourage face-to-face friendships. Let students struggle with difficult tasks by using paper and pencil rather than a computer. Play a card game rather than a video game with your grandchildren. As a parent, be aware of your children’s use of technology and </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/parenting/coviewing-screen-time-connection/"><span>restrict its use</span></a><span> in the home. Read scriptures together as a family using paper books rather than phones or tablets.</span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2018/04/small-and-simple-things?lang=eng"><span> </span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2018/04/small-and-simple-things?lang=eng"><span>President Oaks</span></a><span> reminded us, “We need to be reminded that in total and over a significant period of time, seemingly small things bring to pass great things.” As AI becomes more integrated into our daily lives, we should be mindful to continue to do the small, simple, seemingly old-fashioned things in our home to protect and nourish the spirits and minds of our children, and we will see them perform in great ways.</span></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/media-education/technology/personal-ai-concerns-from-a-grandmother-and-educator/">Personal AI Concerns from a Grandmother and Educator</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/media-education/technology/personal-ai-concerns-from-a-grandmother-and-educator/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 05:00:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80671</guid><title>LDS365: How To Have Essential Family Conversations</title><link>https://lds365.com/2026/05/28/how-to-have-essential-family-conversations/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Larry Richman</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-60325" src="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/family-council-e1758825810120.jpg" alt="family-council" width="800" height="300" /></p>
<p>Church leaders have long <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/family-councils?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">taught about the helpfulness of family councils</a>. Essential conversations in the safety of our homes can help us prepare for the avalanches of life.</p>
<ul>
<li>&#8220;<a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2023/01/06-essential-family-conversations?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Essential Family Conversations</a>&#8221; gives tips and ideas on how to hold conversations with our children. It also gives ideas about when and how to have more frequent essential conversations.</li>
<li>&#8220;<a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2020/09/four-ways-to-improve-family-councils?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Four Ways to Improve Family Councils</a>&#8221; provides ideas on how to work together as a family to solve problems and find greater harmony.</li>
</ul>
<p>For more parenting ideas, see the section “<a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/life/parenting?lang=eng&amp;cid=v_parents_eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Christlike Parenting</a>” in the Life Help section of Gospel Library.</p>The post <a href="https://lds365.com/2026/05/28/how-to-have-essential-family-conversations/">How To Have Essential Family Conversations</a> first appeared on <a href="https://lds365.com">LDS365: Resources from the Church & Latter-day Saints worldwide</a>.<br/><a href="https://lds365.com/2026/05/28/how-to-have-essential-family-conversations/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2026 05:00:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80655</guid><title>LDS365: Resources For Service Projects For Children and Youth</title><link>https://lds365.com/2026/05/22/resources-for-service-projects-for-children-and-youth/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Larry Richman</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-62010" src="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/service-e1774472836598.jpg" alt="service" width="800" height="450" srcset="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/service-e1774472836598.jpg 800w, https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/service-480x270.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 800px, 100vw" /></p>
<p>Around the world, children and youth serve others with their families and friends, in Primary service activities, and in Young Men and Young Women activities. Parents and leaders can lead by example, teach about service, and serve together with Primary children, Young Men, and Young Women.</p>
<p role="paragraph">The following are resources to find ideas for service projects:</p>
<ul role="list">
<li role="listitem"><a role="link" href="https://justserve.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/32535637353883-Service-Project-Ideas" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to a list of service project ideas">JustServe.org</a> has a list of service project ideas by category, including activities, art, care packages, collections, and events. It also has a page of <a role="link" href="https://justserve.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/24998086262171-Start-a-JustServe-Club" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to successful practices">successful practices for starting a service club at school</a>.</li>
<li role="listitem"><a role="link" href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/serve/caring?lang=eng&amp;cid=rdb_v_caring" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to Caring.ChurchofJesusChrist.org">Caring.ChurchofJesusChrist.org</a> has <a role="link" href="https://assets.churchofjesuschrist.org/p6/br/p6br8mfurep6e3mtqcjvfimcqoadxmbqiv2xn61w/caring_report_coloring_pages.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to coloring pages">coloring pages</a> for young children that show examples of children serving others. It also has a page of <a role="link" href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/serve/caring/youth?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to resources for youth">resources for youth</a> with ideas for service projects.</li>
<li role="listitem">The Church’s <a role="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/@GospelForKids" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to Gospel for Kids">Gospel for Kids</a> YouTube channel has a playlist of videos titled “<a role="link" href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwX112tejMBH1pnZgs1sTfFiYfs6-pUTP" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to Caring for Those in Need">Caring for Those in Need</a>.”</li>
<li role="listitem">The PDF “<a role="link" href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/bc/content/ldsorg/content/pdf/children-and-youth/PD60010125-000-Service-and-Activity-Guidelines-for-Children.pdf?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to Service and Activity Guidelines for Children">Service and Activity Guidelines for Children</a>” on the Church’s website helps Primary leaders plan meaningful service opportunities and wholesome, fun activities.</li>
<li role="listitem"><a role="link" href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/general-handbook/12-primary?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to General Handbook, section 12.2.1.3"><em>General Handbook,</em> 12.2.1.3</a>, explains more about how Primary presidencies may organize an annual community service activity.</li>
</ul>
<p>Learn more in the article &#8220;<a href="https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/how-to-involve-children-and-youth-in-service" target="_blank" rel="noopener">How to Involve Children and Youth in Service</a>.&#8221;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>The post <a href="https://lds365.com/2026/05/22/resources-for-service-projects-for-children-and-youth/">Resources For Service Projects For Children and Youth</a> first appeared on <a href="https://lds365.com">LDS365: Resources from the Church & Latter-day Saints worldwide</a>.<br/><a href="https://lds365.com/2026/05/22/resources-for-service-projects-for-children-and-youth/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2026 06:10:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80624</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: Tears for Breakfast</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/parenting/tears-for-breakfast/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Sherene Van Dyke</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Christian-Parenting-Through-Spilled-Milk-Public-Square-Magazine.pdf" download=""><img decoding="async" style="margin-right: 2px; padding-right: 0; float: left;" src="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/pdf-download-1.png" /> Download Print-Friendly Version</a></p>
<p><span>I couldn’t believe I yelled at my five-year-old for spilling milk. It happened so fast. The milk jug just slipped out of his hands. What a mess! </span></p>
<p><span>Milk covered my son and the floor, and I felt frustrated. My daughter sensed the tension and rushed out of the room. My baby’s wails rang out. The milk spiller was in shock and scared of what I would do next. Everyone was upset because I was yelling—again. </span></p>
<p><span>Before my husband and I had kids, I vowed never to be a yeller. But somehow I had become one. I wondered what would happen in the future if I hollered about insignificant, accidental things like this. Telling myself not to yell wasn’t enough, but what could I do?</span></p>
<p><span>This is parenthood, where showers and sleeping seem optional, and an overwhelmed parent sometimes serves tears for breakfast when milk spills. Realizing I wanted to change what I was serving, I began studying how the Savior’s example could help me with my parenting triggers. Each of our parenting journeys is different, but our source for comfort, peace, and direction can be the same. Jesus shows us the way in all things, especially in parenting. </span></p>
<p><b>An Inspired Lesson</b></p>
<p><span>After the milk incident, I spent the next couple of days in a fog, discouraged by how I had handled things. I knew I could do better, but how was I going to “fix” this part of me that yelled when I felt stressed and overwhelmed?</span></p>
<p><span>The question “What would Jesus do?” came to mind, but my mind went blank. I thought of the loving Jesus who was kind and compassionate, but I wasn’t sure this version of Jesus could help me with my current dilemma. </span></p>
<p><span>That Sunday, the incident still weighed on my heart during a Sunday School lesson about the Savior and the woman caught in adultery. I had always concentrated on the Savior’s compassionate response to the woman. But this time, the way He dealt with the judgmental scribes and Pharisees caught my attention. </span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>I began studying how the Savior’s example could help me with my parenting triggers.</p></blockquote></div><br />
How did Jesus stay calm? I let the scene play out in my mind. I could see the serene setting near the temple where the Savior was teaching. Visualizing the commotion the scribes and Pharisees created as they brought the sobbing woman to Jesus made my heart ache. I wondered if they were shouting to show the level of disdain they felt for her. </span></p>
<p><span>The difference between how the Savior responded and how the scribes and Pharisees handled this situation was notable. The scribes and Pharisees were ready to argue and came pointing their fingers at the woman to stir up trouble. (I have to admit, they reminded me of my kids when they accused their siblings of misbehavior!)</span></p>
<p><span>But Jesus didn’t let the actions of the scribes and Pharisees determine how He would respond. He decided to respond intentionally in positive, calm ways rather than react in anger. Jesus didn’t </span><i><span>react</span></i><span>. He </span><i><span>acted</span></i><span>.</span></p>
<p><b>Agency and Anger</b></p>
<p><span>We choose</span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/religion-family-ties-what-studies-show/"><span> how we act</span></a><span> when confronted, disappointed, frustrated, or caught off guard. As Elder Lynn G. Robbins, a General Authority in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1998/04/agency-and-anger?lang=eng"><span>taught</span></a><span>, one of Satan’s cunning lies is to “dissociate anger from agency, making us believe that we are victims of an emotion that we cannot control.” When we say, “I lost my temper,” it implies we were not responsible: someone else “made” us act out in anger. But although we may be strongly provoked, we choose whether to let anger escalate and dictate our behavior. </span></p>
<p><span>Jesus understood this and gave us an example to follow. John </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/john/8?lang=eng&amp;id=p6#p6"><span>wrote</span></a><span> that “Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.” The scribes and Pharisees were so busy shouting accusations about the woman that they could not listen. Jesus understood this and didn’t shout over them.  He waited for them to be quiet. When Jesus ignored their outburst, it seemed as though it did not affect Him. This was not the reaction they expected. And so in their stunned, quiet state, His simple words were enough to </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/john/8?lang=eng&amp;id=p7#p7"><span>teach</span></a><span> “He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone.”</span></p>
<p><b>Practical Preparation</b></p>
<p><span>Staying calm during the outbursts of others isn’t easy, but it can quickly dispel anger. Dr. Glenn Latham researched this Christlike approach. He </span><a href="https://books.google.com/books/about/Christlike_Parenting.html?id=njsOAAAACAAJ"><span>wrote</span></a><span>: “I have been astounded to find that if parents remain calm, empathetic, and direct even in the face of outrageous reviling, 97 out of 100 times, on the third directive, children will comply.” It amazes me how consistently my children’s anger disappears after their third attempt to engage me in an argument. If I stay calm, their anger fades.</span></p>
<p><span>Another thing I realized is that Jesus didn’t just decide to be calm when problems arose. He took time to pray, reflect, ponder, and center Himself often. This may have been why He </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/john/8?lang=eng&amp;id=p1#p1"><span>went</span></a><span> to the Mount of Olives before going to the temple. When Jesus woke in the morning, He may not have known that angry men would confront Him while He was teaching, but He was prepared to respond intentionally. </span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>He decided to respond intentionally in positive, calm ways rather than react in anger.</p></blockquote></div><br />
Christ’s prayers to His Father prepared Him to face the challenges of His day. When we take time to center ourselves on Christ, we will act with greater purpose rather than react to the current conditions around us. My </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/the-power-of-home-centered-gospel-learning/"><span>prayers</span></a><span> led me to inspect my daily interactions with my family. I took notes on how things went over the next few days. I looked at what went well and the times we struggled. Journaling in this way helped me to be more objective. Instead of just feeling bad, I looked for solutions. I also realized that I was not a complete failure as a mother, and there were many bright spots in my </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/faith-parenting-raising-kids-stay-religious/"><span>days with my family</span></a><span>.</span></p>
<p><span>I also discovered that our trouble spots often occurred at the same time and were about the same things. The Lord prompted me to make some intentional changes, like establishing a nightly routine that helped everyone know what to expect. A healthy afternoon snack reduced tears before dinner. When milk spilled at breakfast (again!), I learned to </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/dialogue/controlling-anger-simple-steps-peacemaking-relationships/"><span>take a deep breath</span></a><span>, say a quick prayer, and picture the Savior before responding. This helped me to stay calm and in control of my actions (most of the time). </span></p>
<p><b>Leading with Love</b></p>
<p><span>From studying this Bible story, I realized I had developed the mistaken belief that yelling was necessary in parenting because it seemed to yield immediate results. I also recognized that, in the long run, my lack of self-control could provoke anger and resentment in my children. By not abusing my power, I could build a better relationship with them. </span></p>
<p><span>Love and compassion were key to the Savior staying calm. Just imagine how scared and embarrassed the woman caught in adultery must have been. Jesus understood this. When we are compassionate, we try to feel what others may be feeling and consider how we would want to be treated. This softens our hearts, allowing us to respond with empathy rather than anger. I thought this aspect of the Savior wouldn’t help me with my dilemma. I was so wrong. Our charity towards others helps us approach contention differently. </span></p>
<p><span>Jesus loved the scribes and Pharisees. I had overlooked this. These contentious men were also God’s children. Jesus was patient and looked for the best way to reach them. </span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Jesus reproved in private and praised in public.</p></blockquote></div><br />
He remained compassionate despite the scribes and Pharisees&#8217; attempts to get Him off track. It’s easy to get off track when children are yelling, screaming, or throwing a tantrum. The key is to stay focused on the actual issue. Jesus stayed focused and ignored the noise. He could then discuss important principles with those around Him.</span></p>
<p><span>Jesus’s questions and calmness helped these men consider their own actions. Jesus gave them time to reflect while He bent down and continued writing in the dirt. His question pricked their hearts. It was something the men couldn’t argue with, and they went away. </span></p>
<p><span>Jesus also modeled a vital parenting principle: Jesus reproved in private and praised in public. After the accusers left, He knelt near the woman and asked her questions. He didn’t congratulate the accusers for finding a sinner; instead, He </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/john/8?lang=eng&amp;id=p11#p11"><span>encouraged</span></a><span> the woman to change: “Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.” Condemnation would not have helped this woman to change, but the Savior knew that love could. As the Joseph Smith Translation </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/john/8?lang=eng&amp;id=p11#p11"><span>notes</span></a><span>, “the woman glorified God from that hour, and believed on his name.” Love brought about lasting change.</span></p>
<p><b>A More Excellent Way</b></p>
<p><span>What can I do to bring about lasting change? Learning from Jesus’s example, I can ask my children better questions instead of just telling them what to do. Giving children the responsibility of thinking about their own actions can help them learn to choose good for themselves. </span></p>
<p><span>The milk incident happened over twenty years ago, and I am still trying to master my actions. Once in a while, the “yeller” returns, but I have made progress. I now view the times I get upset as opportunities to grow instead of an excuse to feel bad.</span></p>
<p><span>Recently, one of my daughters was having a rough morning before a volleyball tournament. She yelled about the early hour. She yelled about not being able to find her “stupid” socks. And she yelled about having to go to her sister’s “stupid” tournament. </span></p>
<p><span>I chose to stay calm and compassionate. I didn’t argue or try to fix her &#8220;stupid&#8221; words in the moment.</span></p>
<p><span>A few days later, she asked me, “Mom, why didn’t you yell back?”</span></p>
<p><span>I told her, “I’m trying to be more like Jesus. He frequently had people yelling at Him, but He didn’t yell back. He chose to be calm instead of reacting in anger.”</span></p>
<p><span>She smiled and said, “Mom, you did that the other morning. I think I can do that, too.”</span></p>
<p><span>The Savior’s example of staying calm inspires. When we respond as He did, we not only become more like Him, but we invite others to feel His love and follow Him. We feel the joy that only comes from following Him. I may still occasionally burn the toast and undercook the eggs, but thanks to the Great Tutor, the &#8220;tears for breakfast&#8221; are becoming a thing of the past.</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/parenting/tears-for-breakfast/">Tears for Breakfast</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/parenting/tears-for-breakfast/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 23:00:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80614</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: The Intellectual Life of A Stay-at-Home Mother</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/parenting/the-intellectual-life-of-a-stay-at-home-mother/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Brooklyn Bird</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/The-Intellectual-Life-of-Stay-at-Home-Motherhood-Public-Square-Magazine.pdf" download=""><img decoding="async" style="margin-right: 2px; padding-right: 0; float: left;" src="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/pdf-download-1.png" /> Download Print-Friendly Version</a></p>
<p><span>“I feel so sorry for you.”</span></p>
<p><span>My relative’s words took me by surprise. We were enjoying an afternoon together at a big family gathering, immersed in a conversation completely unrelated to her abrupt and pitying sentence.</span></p>
<p><span>“Oh?”</span></p>
<p><span>“You must be so bored,” she said with compassion. “You’ve spent so many years on your education—reading the most difficult texts, solving complex legal problems. I can’t imagine how monotonous taking care of babies must feel compared to that. Do you ever miss the intellectual stimulation?”</span></p>
<p><span>Her tone was sincere. She genuinely worried I might not be enjoying my decision to put my legal career on hold—my decision to dedicate all my time and energy to my children. She wanted to make space for me to voice any frustrations or regrets.</span></p>
<p><span>But I had to tell her the truth: “Actually, parenting is the most intellectually stimulating thing I’ve ever done.”</span></p>
<p><span>And I meant it.</span></p>
<p><span>My relative’s words could have been my own five years earlier, when I assumed that life as a stay-at-home mother would be mundane, a waste of my potential, something I was too “smart” for.</span></p>
<p><span>At the conclusion of my bachelor’s degree, I dove headfirst into LSAT study, then entered law school, and then enrolled in every possible extracurricular. I set the stage for an illustrious legal career.</span></p>
<p><span>When my husband and I decided to welcome our first baby into our family halfway through law school, I didn’t expect much to change. Sure, I would have a child to take care of, but there was no way this little person </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/losing-and-finding-myself-in-motherhood/"><span>would derail me</span></a><span> from my ambitions.</span></p>
<p><span>Or so I thought.</span></p>
<p><span>Nothing could have prepared me for how wildly my first daughter would take over my heart and soul. As her birth approached, my legal career started to look less like the burning flame I thought it was and more like a meager candle—dim compared to the </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/redefining-power-motherhood/"><span>roaring sun of my daughter’s existence</span></a><span>.</span></p>
<p><span>These feelings only escalated after Brea’s birth. The sacred trust of introducing another human into this world enveloped me. When I should have been studying for law school, I immersed myself in parenting books, striving to refine my personal parenting philosophy. The insights I gained lit up my mind and heart more than any legal text ever could.</span></p>
<p><span>I hung onto my career as long as I could. I graduated from law school, studied for and passed the bar exam, and worked part-time for a year. But from the moment Brea took her first breath, almost any time spent away from her was maddening. Listening to her cry for me while I worked—even though I knew she was safe with my husband—tore me to pieces.</span></p>
<p><span>When our second daughter, Scottie, was born, I quit my job as an attorney and changed my legal license to “inactive” status. And I haven’t looked back. Yes, legal work was incredibly intellectually challenging, but I haven’t lacked for intellectual stimulation one bit. If anything, stay-at-home motherhood feels more intellectually engaging than my career ever did.</span></p>
<p><span>In the months since my well-meaning relative suggested motherhood might bore me, I’ve reflected continually on why my answer was such an emphatic “not at all.” These reflections have turned into a list of all the ways motherhood fills my intellectual cup. I made this list for myself as a reminder of all the ways my mind can expand, even when my days might look outwardly mundane. But I’ve also felt compelled to share this list with other parents, especially parents wondering whether stepping away from paid work will mean stepping away from intellectual life.</span></p>
<p><span>My goal is not to tell any family what to do. I firmly believe that every family should pursue a life that aligns with their talents, interests, and values, </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/gospel-fare/faithful-choices-working-mormon-women/"><span>in consultation with the Lord</span></a><span>, regardless of societal or cultural norms. But I hope this list excites those who have chosen to parent full time: I hope it helps them revel in the opportunities that childrearing provides. And to anyone else, I hope it offers a different view of stay-at-home parenthood—the unveiling of a dimension beyond  dirty diapers and dino nuggets.</span></p>
<h3><span>Motherhood Engages the Mind through Interpretation</span></h3>
<p><b>Consider Your Child’s Perspective</b></p>
<p><i><span>“Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them.” </span></i><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/matt/7?lang=eng&amp;id=p12#p12"><i><span>Matthew 7:12</span></i></a></p>
<p><span>One of the most challenging yet rewarding intellectual opportunities parenting provides is the chance to grow in compassion.</span></p>
<p><span>It isn’t easy, especially when your child is acting in a way that you could never imagine yourself acting. But asking yourself the right questions can get the gears turning:</span></p>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><span>If I were acting the way my child is, why would I be doing it?</span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>If I were the child in this situation, how would I want an adult to respond to my behavior?</span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>What might be the good intentions behind this behavior?</span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>What unmet need might be driving this behavior?</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span>As I have asked myself these questions, even some of my toddler’s most confusing behaviors have become understandable. Perhaps hitting the baby is her attempt to get attention and connection. Sometimes “pushing my buttons” is really just her trying to find a way to play.</span></p>
<p><span>Compassion doesn’t make harmful behavior acceptable. But it does help me understand and address the root causes of that behavior. And often, it turns down the emotional volume of the situation. It puts me into a collaborative, solution-oriented mindset rather than a defensive one.</span></p>
<p><b>Get Curious About Your Own Behavior</b></p>
<p><i><span>“But let a man examine himself.” </span></i><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/1-cor/11?lang=eng&amp;id=p28#p28"><i><span>1 Corinthians 11:28</span></i></a></p>
<p><span>As a parent, I’ve taken a page out of my toddler’s book and am constantly asking myself the age-old question:</span></p>
<p><i><span>Why?</span></i></p>
<p><span>I’ve come to question everything that I do, especially when it’s impulsive or reactive. I don’t do this in a condemning way, but rather with curiosity and compassion. Where did I learn this response to a child’s behavior? When did I learn that this is what a “good” parent does, says, or looks like? If I were to treat an adult this way, would that go over well? If I were treated this way, would I feel inclined to trust and cooperate—or to resist and shut down?</span></p>
<p><span>As Roslyn Ross, author of “A Theory of Objectivist Parenting,” put it well: “Raising children is an act of philosophy.” When we become conscious of why and how we do the things we do, childcare can become an intentional expression of our most deeply cherished values.</span></p>
<h3><span>Motherhood Engages the Mind through Attention</span></h3>
<p><b>Journal</b></p>
<p><i><span>“I will remember the deeds of the Lord.” </span></i><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/ot/ps/77?lang=eng"><i><span>Psalm 77:11</span></i></a></p>
<p><span>A journal has the power to romanticize the mundane. I use mine to catalog the moments that make each day sparkle: the hilarious things that Brea says, the way “mama” was Scottie’s first word, the memories of pen pal</span><span>&#8211;</span><span>ing, fort building, and flower picking—all collected into my own little whimsical volume.</span></p>
<p><span>A journal is also a tool for mental rehearsal. In mine, I reflect on my most challenging moments as a parent and write out how I intend to respond to similar moments in the future. Writing out a game plan makes it easier to act in a way that I’m proud of once I meet the heat of the moment.</span></p>
<p><b>Indulge in a Sense of Awe</b></p>
<p><i><span>“O how great the goodness of our God.” </span></i><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/bofm/2-ne/9?lang=eng&amp;id=p10#p10"><i><span>2 Nephi 9:10</span></i></a></p>
<p><span>Albert Einstein </span><a href="https://cooperative-individualism.org/einstein-albert_the-world-as-i-see-it.pdf"><span>said</span></a><span>, “The most beautiful experience we can have is the mysterious.” Nothing is more mysterious or beautiful than a newborn baby. When my first daughter was born, I was constantly awestruck by the miracle of her existence and the mystery of who she was and who she would become. Even the tiniest developmental steps felt like magic.</span></p>
<p><span>As our kids get older and our families grow, it can be easy to lose this sense of awe. But the truth is that every child at every age is just as worthy of wonder. Our kids are constantly changing, each day unveiling another piece of their unique spirits. Reminding myself of this truth helps me see beyond whatever the stresses of the day are and instead bask in the blessing of watching my children unfold right in front of me.</span></p>
<p><span>And often it is my children’s examples that remind me how else I might indulge in the awe and wonder of life. Hearing my kids point out all the wonders they notice as we go on walks or drive through town reminds me how much I’ve been taking for granted, and how much I could be using my brain to celebrate beauty instead of lamenting inconvenience.</span></p>
<p><b>Practice Presence</b></p>
<p><i><span>“Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself.” </span></i><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/matt/6?lang=eng&amp;id=p34#p34"><i><span>Matthew 6:34</span></i></a></p>
<p><span>Amidst the modern world’s accelerating pace, parents have the opportunity to slow to the (literal) crawl of brand-new people. Our children show us the pace that humans are biologically wired for.</span></p>
<p><span>I enjoy practicing the art of being present without preoccupation. Finding moments to be with my children without any ulterior motives—no desire to teach, distract, entertain, or manipulate. Just taking them in; learning their hearts.</span></p>
<h3><span>Motherhood Engages the Mind through Growth</span></h3>
<p><b>Make Talent Development a Family Affair</b></p>
<p><i><span>“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” </span></i><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/matt/5?lang=eng&amp;id=p16#p16"><i><span>Matthew 5:16</span></i></a></p>
<p><span>As parents, we sometimes obsess over stuffing our kids with a toolbox of talents. We simultaneously enroll them in ceramics, violin, gymnastics, and lacrosse, hoping our children grow into prodigies or Olympians.</span></p>
<p><span>But what if talent development were more of a team effort? What if it were less about parents managing their children’s careers and more about spending quality time together—time that is genuinely enjoyable and talent-enhancing for both parent and child?</span></p>
<p><span>For me, this looks like letting Brea measure and stir, sharing my passion for cooking delicious, healthy food. It’s challenging myself to improve my own lackluster drawing skills while Brea hones her mastery of the crayon. It’s reading a novel while nursing Scottie, with Brea nearby, flipping through picture books. It’s my husband taking Brea to the skate park in the evenings, letting her zoom around on her scooter while he practices skateboard tricks.</span></p>
<p><b>Set Flexible Goals</b></p>
<p><i><span>“Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope.” </span></i><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/bofm/2-ne/31?lang=eng&amp;id=p20#p20"><i><span>2 Nephi 31:20</span></i></a></p>
<p><span>In our efforts to help our children “become something,” it’s easy to forget that we, too, are still in the process of becoming. Setting personal goals has been integral to my own sense that I am still “myself” as a parent.</span></p>
<p><span>Yet parenting requires flexibility, and one of the biggest learning curves for me has been learning to pursue my goals and plans even when they inevitably get derailed. Sometimes, a dirty diaper demands to be changed before a podcast episode can be recorded or a 5K can be run. The good news is that </span><a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2998793/"><span>flexibility is a hallmark of mental health</span></a><span>. While goals can foster self-improvement, learning to navigate unpredictability also boosts self-efficacy.</span></p>
<p><b>Strengthen the Muscles of Your Character</b></p>
<p><i><span>“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance.” </span></i><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/gal/5?lang=eng"><i><span>Galatians 5:22–23</span></i></a></p>
<p><span>I have grown to enjoy practicing all the traits I want to embody—patience, kindness, confidence—especially when they are tested. I have come to see each tantrum, “power struggle,” and milk spill as a workout for my character: an opportunity to dig deep and be the person I want to be, even when resistance is high. Although none of us will be perfect when we do this, each challenge is an opportunity to get stronger.</span></p>
<p><span>And when we are not in the midst of a “character workout,” we can work to cultivate our internal dialogue. I am learning to speak to myself with compassion and empowerment—the exact same way you would want your kids to speak to themselves.</span></p>
<p><b>See Through the Savior’s Eyes</b></p>
<p><span>Most poignant to me is how parenthood has driven me to the Savior. I’ve gone beyond asking, “What would Jesus do?” and now contemplate, “How would Jesus see, think, and feel in this situation?” I can think of nothing more intellectually engaging than trying to mirror the mind and heart of Jesus Christ.</span></p>
<p><span>I am only two and a half years into my journey as a parent. I don’t have it all figured out.</span></p>
<p><span>But this is why parenting is so intellectually fulfilling for me. Each day meets me with an abundance of lessons to learn. I get to figure life out, all over again, alongside my children. </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/will-my-kids-keep-the-faith-parents-hopes-and-childrens-choices/"><span>Teaching my kids</span></a><span> what it means to be human is cracking me open and forcing me to learn the same lessons. It is challenging, humbling, and more rewarding than I could have ever imagined.</span></p>
<p><span>And while I am confident I’ll one day return to the legal career that once filled my intellectual cup, I’m more than satisfied with the overflow God is pouring in during this crayon-filled season.</span></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/parenting/the-intellectual-life-of-a-stay-at-home-mother/">The Intellectual Life of A Stay-at-Home Mother</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/parenting/the-intellectual-life-of-a-stay-at-home-mother/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 07:25:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80611</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: Women of Faith, Action, and Power</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/women-of-faith-action-and-power/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Savannah Lowe</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Faith-and-Marriage-in-Times-of-Hardship-Public-Square-Magazine.pdf" download=""><img decoding="async" style="margin-right: 2px; padding-right: 0; float: left;" src="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/pdf-download-1.png" /> Download Print-Friendly Version</a></p>
<p><span>The story of Queen Esther focuses on a terrifying extermination order in Ancient Persia to eliminate the Jewish population—and a high-stakes marital challenge. Queen Esther, a Jew, was married to the Persian King Ahasuerus (also known as Xerxes). The king had permitted his highest-ranking official, Haman, to pass the extermination order without knowing its consequences to the Jewish people—or the Jewish identity of his own wife. </span></p>
<p><span>Esther’s uncle, Mordecai, urged Esther to approach the king to plead for her people’s lives. But Persian law dictated that anyone who approached the king in his inner court without being specifically summoned would be put to death. The only exception was if the king extended his golden scepter to spare the person&#8217;s life.</span></p>
<p><span>Faced with the threat of her people’s destruction, Esther called her community to </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/ot/esth/4?lang=eng&amp;id=p16#p16"><span>fast and pray</span></a><span> before she approached the king:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>Go, gather together all the Jews that are present in Shushan, and fast ye for me, and neither eat nor drink three days, night or day: I also and my maidens will fast likewise; and so will I go in unto the king, which is not according to the law: and if I perish, I perish.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>Esther then stepped forward with courage to do what was right despite immense danger. </span></p>
<p><span>She expressed her strength not only inwardly, but in an outward act of faith. Through her religious actions and the united actions of her faith community, she successfully persuaded her husband, the king, to spare her people—and her own life. </span></p>
<p><span>Esther’s inspiring story is retold once a year in the Jewish community, and her courageous spirit lives on in the daily lives of highly religious women. For highly religious women, Esther is not just a historical figure but a functional model for navigating challenging situations, including in the home. In this article, we will discuss the findings from a</span><a href="https://doi.org/10.3390/psycholint6040065"> <span>recent study</span></a><span> we conducted about the religious actions that women of faith, like Esther, take to overcome their marital challenges and hardships.</span></p>
<p><b>Belief in God Leads to External Resources That Strengthen Marriage</b></p>
<p><span>Esther’s unwavering faith in God gave her the strength to face the king, even if it meant she might die. In our study, while the lives of believers were not on the line, family happiness was. We found a recurring theme of what religious women do to call down the power of God into their family life. Gwen, an African American Christian, called it the “big three” and said this:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>If you are doing the big three: prayer, </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/the-power-of-home-centered-gospel-learning/"><span>being in the word</span></a><span>, and fellowshipping with those of like faith then it helps you, and you can encourage other people when they do see that you’re still happy in your marriage after umpteen years.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>So how do prayer, scripture, and fellowshipping contribute to happy marriages and families? We turn now to insights from our study participants.</span></p>
<p><b>Prayer</b></p>
<p><span>Our study participants commonly expressed a connection between their </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/god-and-marriage-faith-strengthens-relationships/"><span>relationship with God</span></a><span> and the way they chose to act in their marriages and families. They reported that they built strong bonds with God through prayer. Anne, a Catholic, said:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>My faith has had its ups and downs. During the lowest downs where I’ve really been kind of far from God, I haven’t been a very good wife, and I haven’t been a very good mother. But when I’ve come back to God and been closer and been more faithful and more active in my own personal prayer life, then I’ve been better: a nicer person and a better wife and a better mother. So, they just, they’re totally hand in hand. I can’t really separate prayer and my family relationships.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>Not only did prayer help participants improve their relationships, but it also fostered spiritual and personal growth. Alyshia, an African American Christian, offered this:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>Having a solid relationship with the Lord &#8230; He will tell you when you are out of line. The Lord will change you and say, ‘Look at thy selfishness; &#8230; and then we can see a little more clearly. Definitely, a solid relationship with God helps with my marriage and family relationships.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>In addition, husbands and wives used prayer as a means of resolving disagreements. Yui, a Chinese Christian, said, “When we had some disagreements, we prayed together, </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/power-repentance-healing-relationships/"><span>confessed our sins</span></a><span> before God, and learned to forgive each other.” For many of the women we interviewed, prayer was not merely a religious practice—it involved a sacred connection to get closer to God and closer to family.</span></p>
<p><b>Scripture Study</b></p>
<p><span>Reading sacred texts or scriptures emerged as another key resource for the women we interviewed. Moriah, a Jewish wife, said that </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/jewish-families-how-teachings-and-traditions-strengthen-marriage-and-family-life/"><span>reading the Torah</span></a><span> brought her and her spouse closer together:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>So often you just stop talking. You don’t communicate, and so I think when we read Torah together, which we really try to do pretty often, it does create conversation and more understanding, and I think certainly that reduces conflict. It prevents conflict. It also helps remedy conflict once it’s there.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>Cassandra, an African American Christian wife, also commented:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>I get all of my inspiration and all of my guidance from the Bible. That’s how I learned how to treat others. How to treat people and how to be in my marriage with my relationship with my husband. And that is what puts things in priority, in order. That’s where I get it from. And when I make decisions, I always say, ‘I don’t make decisions just based on what I think. It’s coming from scripture.’ It’s gonna be scripture-based or it’s gonna be something on that ground.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>Not only did scripture study reportedly influence couple communication and personal decision-making, but it also enhanced participants’ relationships with both God and with their spouse—reflecting similar benefits to prayer. Mercy, a Baptist wife, relayed this about God’s word:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>When two people are married, what’s wrong in you really influences the other person. But for me, I find the only way that I grow very effectively is through God’s touch in my life. So I study in scripture and learn more about who God is and what His heart is for our relationship, for His world that He’s made. It helps me to be able to grow myself so that I can better apply what I learn into my relationships.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><b>Participating in a Faith Community</b></p>
<p><span>Just as Esther drew support from her uncle and the Jewish community, the women we interviewed drew vital support from their </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/evangelical-christian-families-god-wants-us-to-be-strong/"><span>faith communities</span></a><span>. Emily, a Baptist wife and mother, highlighted how her congregation gave her needed support:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>So, faith helps me because I realize that there is a different way to do [life]. And I can actually learn how to do it differently, with other people who are also learning too. Some people I know are much further along, and I can learn from them. And I find that I can actually share experiences with other people that help them. I think being in a faith community is helpful that way, because we realize that we’re not alone.</span></p>
<p><span>Sometimes I’ll go to Bible study and I’ll realize: ‘Boy, the kinds of things that my husband Michael and I maybe are facing or dealing with are nothing compared to what someone else might be experiencing.’ Or I can learn from other people and bring it back into our marriage and say: ‘Hey, this is something somebody shared with me; and what do you think?’ So it’s a dynamic thing. There’s all these relationships that affect us and we have those relationships because we have the same faith.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>Similarly, Noor, an Arab American Muslim wife and mother, commented on how her </span><i><span>masjid</span></i><span> (mosque) and its faith-based classes have offered her direction in her marriage:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>Basically, I need to learn more about Islam to strengthen our marriage, even make it stronger. I think that by getting more in depth in Islam, which I’m trying to do now, I’m going to classes and everything. So, it’s helping me understand a lot more; and I think that it makes me understand more my role in our marriage and how I’m supposed to act.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>Many of these women of faith drew marital support from their faith communities.  These supportive relationships were often so strong that many women referred to “sisters” and “brothers” in their “church family” who had helped their marriages to grow spiritually, temporally, and relationally. Many of the women of faith emphasized that growing alongside others helped them navigate their marriages and parenting with greater wisdom and perspective than they would have found on their own.</span></p>
<p><b>A Legacy of Courage</b></p>
<p><span>Our study participants’ words echo the legacy of Esther: courage is born not only from within, but from a life rooted in faith and the relationships it enriches. Like Esther, these women found strength not in their circumstances but in their devotion to God and in the support of a covenant community. </span></p>
<p><span>By turning to the “big three” of prayer, studying sacred texts, and engaging in marriage-strengthening fellowship with others, their faith shaped how they navigated marital hardship in myriad ways. The sacred practices of these women did more than comfort them; these relational efforts empowered them. Prayer, study, and covenant community worked together to foster clarity, compassion, and resilience in the face of difficulties and challenges in family life. Ultimately, the perspective of these women was that active faith in God can help provide not only a set of coping tools, but a deeper sense of strength, purpose, and connection within their marriages.</span></p>
<p><span> </span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/women-of-faith-action-and-power/">Women of Faith, Action, and Power</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/american-families-of-faith/women-of-faith-action-and-power/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2026 08:56:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80581</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: The Reverent Conversation Between Men and Women</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/the-reverent-conversation-between-men-and-women/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Kristine Stringham</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Rethinking-Emotional-Labor-at-Home-Public-Square-Magazine.pdf" download=""><img decoding="async" style="margin-right: 2px; padding-right: 0; float: left;" src="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/pdf-download-1.png" /> Download Print-Friendly Version</a></p>
<p><span>When I was a teenager, I competed in a track meet and made it to the finals. Events ran later than anticipated and my dad, who was serving as a bishop, had interviews scheduled for that evening. He went searching for a pay phone, but couldn’t get hold of everyone he needed to, so he called a family that lived close to the church and asked them to tape a note on the door explaining his absence. </span></p>
<p><span>This is a small story, and one that loses some of its impact in the age of cell phones, but it was significant to me as a fifteen-year-old. My dad was very conscientious in his church work, but he had cancelled interviews to see me run. This incident spoke to my teenage heart, and it has continued to inform me through the years. </span></p>
<p><span>Something struck me recently, though. I didn’t know the details of this story from my dad. It was my mom who later told me of the missed interviews. Mom was the narrator of much of what occurred in our home, and this was just one example of many. It was Mom’s voice that often provided the tone of the plot points in our family story. She was an optimistic narrator who expressed reverence for the characters involved even when addressing complexity.  </span></p>
<p><span>Much gets said about women’s </span><a href="https://www.weforum.org/stories/2022/12/emotional-labour-women-workplace-home-gender/"><span>emotional labor</span></a><span> on </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGHikdKocY-/?hl=en"><span>social media</span></a><span>. It’s argued that mothers carry the burden of the emotional needs of the family. As I look back on my parents’ marriage, I recognize that my more talkative mom did carry the </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/redefining-power-motherhood/"><span>responsibility</span></a><span> of being the communication hub in our family, and by extension much of the emotional climate as well. But was it a burden for her? I hadn’t sensed that and she was a strong, confident woman who shared her thoughts. </span></p>
<p><span>My dad was a reserved man, and he didn’t talk as much as my mom. This difference in my parents’ personalities underscored to me that the way in which a wife approaches her husband’s strengths and weaknesses has a profound effect on a family. The healthy dialogue my mom encouraged invited a </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/proclamation-on-the-family/equal-partners-husband-wife-marriage/"><span>synergy</span></a><span> of their strengths.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Mom did carry the <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/redefining-power-motherhood/">responsibility</a> of being the communication hub in our family.</p></blockquote></div><br />
Why do we as women sometimes allow our natural strengths, such as those of my mom’s, to be framed negatively as burden</span><i><span>s</span></i><span>? If we’re being honest with ourselves, we can’t deny our power. We know that our mood, whether for good or bad, affects the whole family and the relationships that are fostered within it. This emotional labor can feel heavy at times because family life can be difficult and it doesn’t come with guaranteed results, but anything that has the potential for great influence also has the weight of responsibility attached. And it seems that if we bristle at feminine power, we are often tempted to resent masculine power as well. The potentially complementary relationship between men and women can easily be turned into a competitive and adversarial one.  </span></p>
<p><span>In 2006, Elder James E. Faust </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2006/09/the-father-who-cares?lang=eng"><span>counseled</span></a><span>:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>There are some voices in our society who would demean some of the attributes of </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/modern-masculinit-power-of-fatherhood/?utm_source=chatgpt.com"><span>masculinity</span></a><span>. A few of these are women who mistakenly believe that they build their own feminine causes by tearing down the image of manhood. This has serious social overtones because a primary problem in the insecurity of sons and daughters can be the diminution of the role of the father image.</span></p>
<p><span>Let every mother understand that if she does anything to diminish her children’s father or the father’s image in the eyes of the children, it may injure and do irreparable damage to the self-worth and personal security of the children themselves. How infinitely more productive and satisfying it is for a woman to build up her husband rather than tear him down.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>The dialogue in our homes affects all family members and we are shaped by the conversations we are exposed to and participate in. The Canadian philosopher, </span><a href="https://www.amazon.ca/Rediscovering-Reverence-Meaning-Faith-Secular/dp/0773538976"><span>Ralph Heintzman</span></a><span>, describes how each of us is born into an ongoing conversation that began before our birth and will continue after our death. It is in a conversational context that “we develop our sense of ourselves and of the world…and it is by joining the conversation that we become who we are.” </span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p> If we bristle at feminine power, we are often tempted to resent masculine power as well.</p></blockquote></div><br />
Heintzman </span><a href="https://www.amazon.ca/Rediscovering-Reverence-Meaning-Faith-Secular/dp/0773538976"><span>argues</span></a><span> that in the West since about the fifteenth century, we have increasingly focused on feelings and behaviours associated with individual and personal freedom, and this is reflected in our language.  He says we have embraced “virtues of self-assertion” expressed through words such as, “liberation, freedom, autonomy, separation, independence, individualism, empowerment, self-development, self-expression, and self-realization.” Heintzman further explains how this modern focus on self-assertion has marginalized many other values to such an extent that it is difficult to frame an argument or a position without incorporating the language of self-assertion.  </span></p>
<p><span>But, Heintzman warns, we aren’t just individuals. We need to “give a full account of humanity…which reflects our necessary involvement in a greater whole.” Heintzman argues for language that addresses the relational nature of what it means to be human and provides balance for the language of self-assertion. The name that he gives to this is a “language of reverence.” He describes reverence as conveying “a human attitude of respect and deference for something larger or higher in priority than our own individual selves; something that commands our admiration and our loyalty, and may imply obligations or duties on our part.” “The virtues of self-assertion and the virtues of reverence are the two sides of the human paradox.” </span></p>
<p><span>As members of The Church of Jesus Christ, we are often taught in ways that remind us of the virtues of reverence, but we are immersed in a culture that speaks the language of self-assertion. Sometimes we are tempted to look at the gospel primarily through the self-asserted lens and as a result, we distort prophetic counsel or push against it. This is particularly true of teachings about the relationship between men and women because the virtues of reverence are so necessary for bringing feminine and masculine strength together. When focusing only on the self, without the tempering virtues of reverence, men use their strength against women to get what they want, as I’ve written about </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/Modern-Masculinity-and-the-Power-of-Fatherhood.pdf"><span>previously</span></a><span>, and women weaponize their innate abilities to gain leverage over men. The results are a tragic loss of potential and some of the greatest human suffering. As Elder Neal A. Maxwell </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1978/04/the-women-of-god?lang=eng"><span>taught</span></a><span>, “In the work of the Kingdom, men and women are not without each other, but do not envy each other, lest by reversals and renunciations of role we make a wasteland of both womanhood and manhood.” </span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>We are immersed in a culture that speaks the language of self-assertion.</p></blockquote></div>As my mom was in the last few weeks of her life, she and my dad guided my siblings and me in planning her funeral—which song the grandchildren would sing, who should talk, the maximum length of the service, etc. But Mom didn’t stop there in her organizing. She specifically instructed us to include some of her own words, from a talk she had given, in the eulogy. My brother and I would be at the pulpit together but she wanted me, as a woman, to be the voice as I quoted her:</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>I feel very secure as a woman. I know that women are recognized, valued and loved by the Lord. I feel confident that this is truth…I also recognize that this regard for womanhood that is held by the Lord is the model for all who seek to be like Him…for those who are His disciples&#8230; and for those who bear His priesthood and act in His name. I appreciate the noble men of the church for the many responsibilities that they shoulder; for the service and respect that they give to women.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>Mom had a confident voice full of reverence, and she used it to strengthen relationships. There were distinct themes in Mom’s life, and an appreciation for how men and women complement one another, both in the family and in church service, was one of them. </span></p>
<p><span>All those years ago on that track field, she had wanted me to know that Dad had cancelled his appointments to see me run, so I would understand how much he loved me. I’m so grateful for that.</span></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/the-reverent-conversation-between-men-and-women/">The Reverent Conversation Between Men and Women</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/family-matters/the-reverent-conversation-between-men-and-women/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80580</guid><title>LDS365: How Parents and Youth Can Prepare For New Sunday Lessons</title><link>https://lds365.com/2026/04/24/how-parents-and-youth-can-prepare-for-new-sunday-lessons/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Larry Richman</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-62350" src="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/for-strength-youth-phone-e1776443117875.jpeg" alt="for-strength-youth-phone" width="800" height="450" srcset="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/for-strength-youth-phone-e1776443117875.jpeg 800w, https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/for-strength-youth-phone-480x270.jpeg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 800px, 100vw" /></p>
<p>Beginning September 6, the lessons in Aaronic Priesthood and Young Women meetings will focus on truths in the updated edition of<em><a href="https://lds365.com/2026/04/17/what-is-taught-in-the-updated-edition-of-for-the-strength-of-youth-a-guide-for-making-choices/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"> For the Strength of Youth: A Guide for Making Choices</a>.</em></p>
<p>This updated guide is available in the Gospel Library app, <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/for-the-strength-of-youth?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">online</a>, as a <a href="https://assets.churchofjesuschrist.org/ce/4p/ce4ph5k7ak5v0y2txsr4smygjmktrnhe2a9tugh8/fsy_stand_alone_guide.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">downloadable PDF</a>, and will be available soon in print. The updated edition contains 12 chapters, with one chapter designated for study each month. Youth and their families are invited to do the following between now and September to prepare:</p>
<h1 role="heading" aria-level="3">Read Together: One Chapter per Week</h1>
<p>Youth, their families, and leaders are invited to read the entire guide before September 6, becoming familiar with its teachings and learning how to use it as a lifelong resource for discipleship and decision-making. Here are two easy ways to read the short chapters of 2–4 pages each:</p>
<ul>
<li role="paragraph">Use a study plan in the Gospel Library app. With the study plan, you can track chapters read, set in‑app notifications, and listen to each chapter, which will automatically mark the week’s reading as complete. How to set up a study plan: (1) on the home screen of the Gospel Library, tap <strong>Study Plans,</strong> then tap <strong>FSY Guide: A Study for Lifelong Discipleship. </strong>The If you are on a mobile device now, just <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/learn/mobile-applications/gospel-library/featured-study-plans/db2fa15b-728a-4da8-885b-a74e6136bf12">click here</a>.</li>
<li>Beginning May 3, 2026, the For the Strength of Youth (formerly Strive to Be) social media channels on <a role="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/forstrengthofyouth/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.facebook.com/forstrengthofyouth" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Facebook</a> will host a worldwide reading experience. Weekly posts will include reading invitations, insights, and testimonies from other youth, along with application ideas that help youth act on what they are learning.</li>
</ul>
<h1>Subscribe to the <em>For the Strength of Youth</em> Magazine</h1>
<p>Beginning in September 2026, curriculum materials supporting the weekly youth lessons will be printed in the back of each issue of the <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/inspiration/magazines/ftsoy?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>For the Strength of Youth</em></a> magazine. <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/tools/magazine-subscriptions?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Subscribe now</a> to get a monthly free printed copy of the magazine. You will receive your first magazine 6–8 weeks after subscribing.</p>
<p>See a <a href="https://assets.churchofjesuschrist.org/w9/v1/w9v1n04skz98q58hcc6o2deyrf5lb0iaq88hcwym/september_youth_curriculum.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">sneak peak of the September curriculum</a>.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/tools/magazine-subscriptions?lang=eng"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-62343" src="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/for-strength-youth-magazine-e1776442153276.jpg" alt="for-strength-youth-magazine" width="800" height="450" srcset="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/for-strength-youth-magazine-e1776442153276.jpg 800w, https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/for-strength-youth-magazine-480x270.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 800px, 100vw" /></a></p>
<h1>Follow the Church’s Youth Social Media Channels</h1>
<p>The Church’s youth-focused social media channels, previously known as Strive to Be, have now been renamed For the Strength of Youth on <a role="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/forstrengthofyouth/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.facebook.com/forstrengthofyouth" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Facebook</a>. These channels offer:</p>
<ul role="list">
<li role="listitem">Uplifting, Christ-centered messages that help youth deepen their faith and feel the Savior’s love in their daily lives.</li>
<li role="listitem">Positive, inspirational content to strengthen confidence, belonging, and discipleship in a supportive online community.</li>
<li role="listitem">Worldwide perspectives from youth and leaders, helping young men and young women feel connected to other disciples of Jesus Christ around the globe.</li>
</ul>
<p>Parents, leaders, and youth are also invited to follow Young Women Worldwide on <a role="link" href="https://www.facebook.com/youngwomenworldwide" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to Facebook">Facebook</a> and <a role="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/youngwomenworldwide/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to Instagram">Instagram</a> and Young Men Worldwide on <a role="link" href="https://www.facebook.com/youngmenworldwide" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to Facebook">Facebook</a> and <a role="link" href="https://www.instagram.com/youngmenworldwide_/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label="Link to Instagram">Instagram</a>.</p>
<h1>Attend the Youth Discussion on August 30, 2026</h1>
<p>To prepare youth and their families for the new curriculum, the Church has designated Sunday, August 30, 2026, the fifth Sunday of that month, as a worldwide discussion day for youth. On this Sunday, <strong>youth, their parents, youth leaders, </strong>and <strong>Primary children who will turn 12 in 2027</strong> are invited to gather in their wards and branches to watch instructional videos provided by the Church and conclude with a local discussion.</p>
<p>This special fifth-Sunday meeting will introduce the new curriculum, demonstrate how to use the guide effectively, and offer practical instruction on how youth can participate fully in weekly classes beginning September 6.</p>
<h1>Provide Ongoing Encouragement</h1>
<p>Parents and families can provide ongoing support by discussing the monthly topics in home evenings and in other family discussions.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>The post <a href="https://lds365.com/2026/04/24/how-parents-and-youth-can-prepare-for-new-sunday-lessons/">How Parents and Youth Can Prepare For New Sunday Lessons</a> first appeared on <a href="https://lds365.com">LDS365: Resources from the Church & Latter-day Saints worldwide</a>.<br/><a href="https://lds365.com/2026/04/24/how-parents-and-youth-can-prepare-for-new-sunday-lessons/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2026 08:12:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80562</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: Carrying Our Weight in the Pro-Life Movement</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/carrying-our-weight-in-the-pro-life-movement/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Ryan Strong</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Carrying-Our-Weight-in-the-Pro-Life-Movement-Public-Square-Magazine.pdf" download=""><img decoding="async" style="margin-right: 2px; padding-right: 0; float: left;" src="https://publicsquaremag.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/pdf-download-1.png" /> Download Print-Friendly Version</a></p>
<p><span>Since the overturning of </span><i><span>Roe v. Wade</span></i><span> in 2022, the fight over abortion’s legal status in each state has raged on. For the pro-life movement, it’s not going well. The movement has lost nearly all of the </span><a href="https://ballotpedia.org/Abortion_policy_ballot_measures"><span>state ballots and referendums</span></a><span> aimed at restricting abortion. In </span><a href="https://www.npr.org/2024/11/09/nx-s1-5183891/floridas-amendment-to-protect-abortion-rights-fell-short-of-passing-by-just-3-votes"><span>Florida</span></a><span>, abortion restrictions only survived because the state failed to reach the the 60% supermajority required to enshrine abortion rights into the state constitution, demonstrating the unpopularity of abortion restrictions among even nominally conservative voters.</span></p>
<p><span>Radical abortion policies that would allow abortion late in pregnancy are being implemented across the country as secular feminists and the governments they control go for broke, leaving the pro-life movement in the dust. For example, abortion has been enshrined as a right in the </span><a href="https://www.pbs.org/newshour/politics/colorado-voters-approve-constitutional-amendment-protecting-abortion"><span>Colorado state constitution</span></a><span>, making near-unlimited abortion part of the state’s highest law. In 2024, pro-life measures were </span><a href="https://news.ballotpedia.org/2024/10/02/a-deep-dive-into-spending-on-abortion-related-ballot-measures-in-2024/"><span>outspent</span></a><span> approximately 14  to 1.</span></p>
<p><span>It is time for a candid assessment of our role as Latter-day Saints in the pro-life movement. Latter-day Saints have a special duty to oppose abortion and to stand for life through activism, legislation, and volunteering. The movement against abortion needs all the help it can get, and now is the time to act.</span></p>
<p><span>I cannot exceed </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/a-latter-day-saint-defense-of-the-unborn/"><span>Terryl Givens</span></a><span> in eloquence or force of argument, which he articulated against abortion in these pages. In particular, he highlighted the fallacy of being personally opposed to abortion but pro-choice politically. He said: </span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>There is no more ethical or logical sense in being “personally opposed, but pro-choice” than in being personally opposed to sex trafficking, slavery, or child abuse, “but” pro-choice regarding the adult’s prerogatives in those cases. Abortion is not like heavy drinking or pornography or blaspheming, where one deplores the action but accords another the right to act immorally. Abortion is of that class of wrongs that entails the willful infliction of pain or killing on another human being. Ultimately, the pro-life position is not a commitment predicated on sectarian values or God’s precepts. It is the fruit of a more universal commitment to protect the most vulnerable and voiceless. It is a commitment to the most fundamental obligation we have as part of the human family: to defend the defenseless.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>It struck me how little presence Latter-day Saints had at this year&#8217;s March for Life in Washington, D.C. I saw no signs identifying participants as members of the Church, though I understand </span><a href="https://www.latterdaysaintsforlife.org/"><span>Latter-day Saints for Life</span></a><span> were there. </span><span>I also recently attended a pro-life event hosted by the David Network for Ivy League students. Of the 400 participants, only four were members of their school’s Latter-day Saint Student Associations. </span></p>
<p><span>Some of our distinguished members have lost sight of the grave evil of abortion. Indeed, the only </span><a href="https://www.sltrib.com/sports/rsl/2023/03/13/utah-royals-co-owner-ryan-smith/"><span>Latter-day Saint billionaire</span></a><span> who has commented publicly on abortion did so to assure members and staff of a new sports team in Utah that they would be refunded for any out-of-state abortion they received. Such lacunae disappoint me, as we as a people generally punch above our weight. We’re often educated, intelligent, organized, and capable. Most importantly, we have priesthood power and the gift of the Holy Ghost. So why are we hesitating to stand for life? </span></p>
<p><b>Why Do We Hesitate? </b></p>
<p><span>Some Latter-day Saints may shy away from opposing abortion because the issue is viewed as too political or partisan. By virtue of standing for life, they believe they may signal association with a political party with which they do not necessarily agree.  Yet lately, neither political party seriously supports the pro-life movement. The Trumpian GOP increasingly substitutes radical nationalism (and, in some cases, white ethnonationalism) for serious pro-life social policy. The Democrats have not supported unborn children for a long time, and that has accelerated with the fall of </span><a href="https://news.gallup.com/poll/246278/abortion-trends-party.aspx"><span>Roe.</span></a><span> Now is the time to depoliticize and to show that </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/beyond-roe-v-wade/"><span>the desire</span></a><span> to protect the life of a child cuts across all political and social categories. </span></p>
<p><span>Others are concerned that women will suffer from abortion bans due to uncertainty about the legality of abortion in medical emergencies. This concern is over-stated. Even in the most stringent states, such as Texas, abortion is allowed in the case of medical emergencies. Pro-life supporters care about protecting emergency care for women. To emphasize the point, Texas </span><a href="https://www.npr.org/2025/07/19/nx-s1-5445143/texas-abortion-life-of-mother"><span>recently amended</span></a><span> its law to ensure that doctors know they can provide abortion when a woman’s health is gravely threatened. The claim that women will die en masse because of abortion bans simply is not true and ignores the real threat to life: the killing of the unborn by abortion.</span></p>
<p><span>Some Latter-day Saints might hide behind the idea of being a peacemaker. Of course, we should be peacemakers. Those who support abortion are human beings, too, deserving the love and respect that are inherent in our shared identity as children of God. There is no need to add to the screaming match on the internet to defend the right of a child to life. However, merely emphasizing our role in peacemaking ignores the Savior’s own example. He fearlessly confronted those who taught evil and did not back down, even at the cost of His own life. As disciples, we have a dual mandate to fight for the truth and to love our fellow man. We cannot sacrifice one for the other.</span></p>
<p><span>Some might hesitate to stand for life because it is difficult to fully align the Church’s </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/gospel-fare/the-consistency-of-prophetic-statements-about-abortion/"><span>position</span></a><span> with pro-life groups or policies, given that the Church contemplates exceptions for the health and life of the mother, rape and incest, and fetal inviability. Yet over</span> <a href="https://lozierinstitute.org/fact-sheet-reasons-for-abortion/#:~:text=Overall,%20common%20exceptions%20to%20abortion%20limits%20are,1.2%25%5B8%5D%20*%20Elective%20and%20unspecified%20reasons:%2095.9%25%5B9%5D"><span>95 percent of abortions</span></a><span> are elective or have no reason specified for the abortion. Latter-day Saints and other Christian groups agree far more than they disagree on abortion. However, occasionally these differences can cause tensions and friction. I think the Church is wise, morally and politically, to acknowledge some possible exceptions (though not automatic dispensations) to its general opposition to abortion. And politically, many women will not support pro-life legislation that does not include rape exceptions, making it necessary to advance such legislation. In many states that ban abortion or ban it after six weeks, laws make allowances for the exceptions that the Church advocates. For example, Idaho, North Dakota, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida, West Virginia, Mississippi, Iowa, and Indiana all provide exceptions </span><a href="https://www.brookings.edu/articles/abortion-in-the-us-what-you-need-to-know/"><span>for rape</span></a><span>, as will Utah if its law is implemented after the current </span><a href="https://apnews.com/article/abortion-utah-trigger-law-supreme-court-53d1705554419be862400ff60b93e01c"><span>legal battle</span></a><span>. There is ample room for the Church’s position within the pro-life movement.</span></p>
<p><span>I think the final reason why many Latter-day Saints don’t want to get involved is simpler and more embarrassing. The pro-life cause is gauche. It is unpopular with the rich and the powerful, the beautiful and charismatic. It feels embarrassing to be involved in, and it is a movement that higher minds scorn. It interferes with the unmitigated rights of adults to unlimited sexual pleasure. The cries of the great and spacious building are amplified by the high levels of education that many Latter-day Saints attain and their deep craving for acceptance. For a century, we have tried to assimilate into the mainstream and to be accepted. I will be blunt: that project is over. We cannot serve two masters, and we cannot assimilate to the ideology of secularism. The secular church that Elder Neal A. Maxwell</span><a href="https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/neal-a-maxwell/meeting-challenges-today/"><span> foresaw</span></a><span> has formed, and it will brook no opposition. It is time to stop worrying about what other people think, like an anxious teenager looking around at the popular kids, and stride forward out of adolescence and into maturity. </span></p>
<p><b>Current Ballot Initiatives</b></p>
<p><span>There are three states with significant Latter-day Saint populations where abortion will likely be on the ballot this fall: Missouri, Virginia, and Nevada. In Missouri,</span><a href="https://missouriindependent.com/2025/10/07/missouri-abortion-ban-amendment-ballot-language-2026/"><span> voters will be asked</span></a><span> to repeal the current abortion regime that allows elective abortion </span><a href="https://missouriindependent.com/2025/07/03/missouri-abortion-rights-amendment-trumps-most-restrictions-judge-rules/"><span>up to fetal viability</span></a><span> and replace it with one that prohibits elective abortion, while leaving exceptions for rape, incest, the life of the mother or serious health risks, and </span><a href="https://ballotpedia.org/Missouri_Amendment_3,_Prohibit_Abortion_and_Gender_Transition_Procedures_for_Minors_Amendment_(2026)"><span>fetal inviability</span></a><span>. This aligns strongly, though not perfectly, with the </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/general-handbook/38-church-policies-and-guidelines?lang=eng&amp;utm_source=chatgpt.com"><span>position</span></a><span> of The Church of Jesus Christ. The referendum that legalized elective abortion in Missouri succeeded narrowly. Organizing for this new referendum is crucial. The growing Latter-day Saint population in Missouri has an opportunity to stand for life. </span></p>
<p><span>In Virginia, an </span><a href="https://ballotpedia.org/Virginia_Right_to_Reproductive_Freedom_Amendment_(2026)"><span>amendment</span></a><span> that would enshrine elective abortion up to birth in the Virginia Constitution will be on the ballot. Defeating it would be a pro-life win, though, unfortunately, elective abortion is already allowed up to 26 weeks. Regardless, a large Latter-day Saint population exists in the D.C. suburbs of Virginia, allowing for serious and substantive action to stop this monstrous assault on life from passing. </span></p>
<p><span>In Nevada, another </span><a href="https://ballotpedia.org/Nevada_Question_6,_Right_to_Abortion_Initiative_(2024)"><span>amendment</span></a><span> would enshrine the right to elective abortion in the Nevada Constitution up to fetal viability. It already passed overwhelmingly in 2024, but it needs to pass again this year. With the large Latter-day Saint population in Nevada, I hope we can tip the scales and prevent this dark and disturbing practice from being enshrined in yet another state constitution.</span></p>
<p><span>Of course, even in states like Massachusetts and New York, the pro-life movement still needs volunteers and support. And in all states, young, scared single mothers still need support. Latter-day Saints have a role to play no matter where they live in the quest to protect unborn life.</span></p>
<p><b>Putting Our Shoulder to the Wheel</b></p>
<p><span>There are many evils in America, but abortion is unique. No matter how anyone tries to spin it, abortion is the intentional destruction of a real human being. In later stages of pregnancy, it is murder, though even early on, it is a grievous sin. It has no other parallel in modern America. </span></p>
<p><span>Above all, abortion strikes at the heart of the plan of salvation and the heart of the Church’s task. It exists to enable the abuse of the sacred powers of procreation, and it turns the most loving of relationships—between mother and child—into violence and terror. We cannot accept our sacred priesthood responsibilities as a people without standing for the unborn. The temple, the pinnacle of the priesthood, binds families together. Abortion exists to destroy the family unit through violence, making it the antithesis of priesthood power.</span></p>
<p><span>As then </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1985/04/reverence-for-life?lang=eng"><span>Elder Russell M. Nelson</span></a><span> taught about abortion, “</span><span>It is a war on the defenseless—and the voiceless.” Abortion is frequently implemented to protect individuals from the consequences of their sexual promiscuity, men as well as women. Many who have the nerve to celebrate abortion see it as a triumph of liberation—a child sacrifice to my “freedom.” As </span><a href="https://firstthings.com/christ-and-nothing/"><span>David Bentley Hart</span></a><span> has stated: </span></p>
<blockquote><p><span>For me, it is enough to consider that, in America alone, more than forty million babies have been aborted since the Supreme Court invented the ‘right’ that allows for this, and that there are many for whom this is viewed not even as a tragic ‘necessity,’ but as a triumph of moral truth. When the Carthaginians were prevailed upon to cease sacrificing their babies, at least the place vacated by Baal reminded them that they should seek the divine above themselves; we offer up our babies to ‘my’ freedom of choice, to ‘me.’ No society’s moral vision has ever, surely, been more degenerate than that.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>The current state of abortion’s legality is discouraging for those who prize life. But that is not an excuse for disengagement. Let us “do what is right, let the consequence follow.” Let us bid farewell to Babylon and stand strong against its temptations and seductions. And let us “put our shoulder to the wheel.” The battle will be long and hard, but it will be worth it to save the lives of the unborn and to frustrate Satan’s plans. “Come, come ye saints, no toil nor labor fear.” </span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/carrying-our-weight-in-the-pro-life-movement/">Carrying Our Weight in the Pro-Life Movement</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/carrying-our-weight-in-the-pro-life-movement/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2026 23:54:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80511</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: What Life Patterns Protect Against Sexual Violence?</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/sexual-abuse/what-life-patterns-protect-against-sexual-violence/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Jacob Z. Hess</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><span>If the risk of sexual violence accumulates across economic strain, relational conflict, addiction, trauma, isolation, and distorted beliefs, then it makes sense that prevention</span><span>, </span><span>would need to be equally layered. </span><span>Instead of one-dimensional awareness campaigns or interventions, more effective efforts seek to</span><span> strengthen individuals, marriages, families, and communities at the same time.</span></p>
<p><span>If the first article mapped the terrain of vulnerability, the second </span><span>this part </span><span>turns to the work of building protection.</span></p>
<p><span>What would it look like to respond proportionately to what the evidence actually shows? If certain patterns repeatedly increase vulnerability, then their opposites </span><b>ought to</b> <span>must</span><span> become deliberate priorities. In this section, I outline practical steps—grounded in the research reviewed </span><b>previously</b> <span>above</span><span>—that families, faith communities, and civic institutions can take to reduce risk and expand real protection for women and children.</span></p>
<h3><strong>The protection of healthy, genuine faith</strong></h3>
<p><span>In </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/sexual-abuse/getting-at-the-roots-of-sexual-violence-against-women/"><span>part one</span></a><span>, I outlined ways that limited religious community and faith commitment can increase the risk of sexual violence against women. The opposite is also true, with religious affiliation, identification and participation often protective against sexual violence according to studies in various countries. For instance:</span></p>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><span>A family’s “affiliation with Christian religious denominations” is “associated with lower risk of physical and sexual violence” in India (</span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22935947/"><span>Kimuna, et al., 2013</span></a><span>). </span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>Being a Muslim was “protective from any type” of intimate partner violence” including “sexual and emotional” in the Ivory Coast (</span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24451017/"><span>Peltzer &amp; Pengpid, 2014</span></a><span>). </span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>The latter finding is mirrored in an earlier study finding Muslim religion protective against intimate partner violence in six African countries (</span><a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0886260510390951"><span>Alio, et al., 2010</span></a><span>).</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span>Beyond affiliation alone, regular church attendance was specifically protective against victimization as well (</span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11236411/"><span>Lown &amp; Vega, 2001</span></a><span>; </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37199485/"><span>O’Connor, et al., 2023</span></a><span>). Respondents with higher levels of religious involvement in different studies were less likely to report intimate partner victimization (</span><a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341595344_The_Influence_of_Religious_Involvement_on_Intimate_Partner_Violence_Victimization_via_Routine_Activities_Theory"><span>Zavala &amp; Muniz, 2020</span></a><span>) -with the latter U.S. research team noting this finding was “consistent with prior studies looking at the relationship between religious beliefs and intimate partner violence.” For instance: </span></p>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><span>“Frequent church attendance” is among the factors “associated with decreased risk of violence” in Filipino homes according to </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19306795/"><span>Fehringer &amp; Hindin, 2009</span></a><span>—who report “less male perpetration if mothers attended church more often”—in line </span><span>with other findings, as they say “other research supports a protective effect of church attendance on partner violence.” </span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>The same research team observed in a second article that “regular church attendance by the wife” and “regular church attendance by the husband” were both associated with lower risk of perpetrating violence in a marriage (</span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18768743/"><span>Ansara &amp; Hindin, 2009</span></a><span>).</span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1987-19010-001"><span>Fergusson, et al., 1986</span></a><span> highlighted “church attendance” as a significant factor in the frequency of “wife assault” in New Zealand—with the religious attendance of both fathers and mothers making the perpetration of victimization within their relationship less likely. They specifically found that men and women least likely to commit domestic violence were those who participate in services once a month or more are least -followed by those who attend less than monthly.</span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>In an analysis of U.S. couples two decades ago, </span><a href="https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1998-03205-005"><span>Ellison, et al., 1999</span></a><span> likewise reported that “</span><span>regular attendance at religious services” made domestic violence perpetration less likely. “</span><span>Both men and women who attend religious services regularly are less likely to commit acts of domestic violence than persons who attend rarely or not at all,” they observed—noting that for men, it was only when they participated weekly that this effect showed up, while women also had a protective effect with monthly attendance. </span></li>
</ul>
<p><span>Overall, “religiosity does decrease (intimate partner) victimization” report </span><a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1077801207308259"><span>Ellison, et al., 2007</span></a><span> based on a U.S. survey—adding that “religious involvement, specifically church attendance, protects against domestic violence”—a “protective effect,” which they note, is “stronger for African American men and women and for Hispanic men, groups that, for a variety of reasons, experience elevated risk for this type of violence.”</span></p>
<p><span>As reflected above, studies show repeatedly that faith participation can prevent both perpetration and victimization. This seems, in part, due to pro-social teachings, avoidance of risky behavior and a sense of higher purpose and meaning.</span></p>
<p><span>Victims often described in studies how leaders and fellow congregants helped them get away from earlier abuse and begin to find healing. This is not always true, of course—with certain attitudes held by people of faith sometimes functioning as a barrier to healing and safety. Indeed, another set of studies point towards less healthy religious attitudes that leave women at greater risk for different kinds of abuse.</span></p>
<h3><b>Conflicting evidence</b></h3>
<p><span>Even so, the influence of religion is not as simple as described above—with more nuance to consider. Psychological, physical and sexual violence had a “significant association” with evangelical faith in a Brazilian study—with the authors reporting a “33% increase in intimate partner sexual abuse in life in evangelical women, compared to those who do not belong to this group” (</span><a href="https://www.scielo.br/j/csc/a/R64vx7t9ykzCH54DTfSFvjv/?lang=en"><span>Santos, et al., 2020</span></a><span>). </span></p>
<p><span>A set of other studies in Africa have also found families who were Muslim at greater risk of victimization (in Ethiopia </span><a href="https://reproductive-health-journal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12978-015-0072-1"><span>Agumasie &amp; Bezatu, 2015</span></a><span>; in Kenya </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34493507/"><span>Ward &amp; Harlow, et al., 2021</span></a><span>; in Nigeria </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35725404/"><span>Bolarinwa, et al., 2022</span></a><span>; in Malawi </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34702391/"><span>Forty, 2022</span></a><span>). </span></p>
<p><span>How exactly to interpret these and other seemingly contradictory findings is a critical point, something I </span><a href="https://www.publishpeace.net/p/what-500-studies-tell-us-about-ending"><span>explore in-depth in my full report</span></a><span>. In simple form, not all religiosity is the same, with religious faith that allows men to dominate women, or which does not place serious emphasis on avoiding alcohol or casual sex, putting women (and children) at risk. </span></p>
<p><span>“Misinterpretation of religious beliefs” was cited in a Pakistani </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18561735/"><span>analysis</span></a><span> of influences on sexual and other kinds of violence at home, with the authors advocating for “public policy informed by correct interpretation of religion” which they said could prompt “a change in prevailing societal norms.”</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Religious institutions may reduce the risk of violence in a relationship.</p></blockquote></div><br />
After analyzing data from the Philippines, another research team </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18768743/"><span>notes</span></a><span> that religious institutions may reduce the risk of violence in a relationship “by promoting messages encouraging a commitment to family life, providing counseling in conflict resolution or alcohol-related problems, providing information about resources in the community …. and providing an opportunity for strengthening social networks.”</span></p>
<p><span>In addition, </span><span>there’s also evidence that sincere, “intrinsic” religious practice and conviction among men and women functions as a more powerful protector against sexual violence and other abuse, while more superficial, “extrinsic” religious conviction simply does not.</span><span> It seems clear that “weak commitment to religion” could be a factor in victimization within a relationship, </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20229697/"><span>Vakili, et al., 2010</span></a><span> notes that a “woman and husband’s weak level of religious commitment” in Iran was “significantly associated with an increase in physical, sexual, and psychological abuse.” </span></p>
<p><span>The authors later said that “strong religious beliefs may be instrumental in reducing the likelihood of intimate partner violence among Iranian families” (</span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20229697/"><span>Vakili, et al., 2010</span></a><span>).</span> <span>In the other direction, deeper and more sincere religious conviction shows promising effects—with “religious intensity” associated in another study with a “lower victimization count” (</span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23148902/"><span>Sabina, et al., 2013</span></a><span>). </span></p>
<h3><b>Complex, overlapping patterns of vulnerability</b></h3>
<p><span>While this broad array of variables involved in increasing (or decreasing) the risk for sexual violence can seem overwhelming, I believe it can be invaluable to know that, b</span><span>roadly speaking, women and men who have experienced significant past abuse, who are under heavy current stress and financial pressures and are experiencing compromised faculties, significant conflict and real isolation, are all at much higher risk of future victimization (and perpetration)—especially if they have little awareness about the extent of the risk. </span></p>
<p><span>By contrast, women and men who have been protected from past abuse, who are not facing current heavy stress or compromised faculties, who don’t have significant conflict or isolation, will all be significantly more protected against future victimization (and perpetration)—especially if they have adequate awareness about the extent of the risk. </span></p>
<p><span>To the degree a woman or man falls on a higher or lower place on any of these spectrums (more past trauma, but lower stress levels today … less conflict, but also greater isolation), their level of risk (and protection) will likewise vary widely. </span></p>
<p><span>In addition, women who are less educated, divorced, addicted (or with partners addicted to alcohol or pornography) are more likely to experience sexual violence—especially if they experience inadequate financial support, limited healthy community commitments, and a dearth of higher meaning and spiritual purpose in life.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Perpetrators focus on places where any vulnerability exists</p></blockquote></div><br />
Even one risk factor can have rippling effects—with the sheer, cumulative risk of risk factors also corresponding with greater risk. One researcher, for instance, observed “six percent of young white women with no risk factors, nine percent of those with one, 26 percent of those with two, and 68 percent of those with three or more had been sexually abused before or during adolescence” (</span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2759216/"><span>Moore, et al., 1989</span></a><span>). </span></p>
<p><span>Certainly, none of the above factors operates in a vacuum independent of each other—with interlinkages among all ten factors. For instance, people of faith are also more likely to avoid drug/alcohol dependency, experience nurturing social support and be happily married (while also having more children).</span></p>
<p><span>But overall, the research makes it clear that perpetrators focus on places where any vulnerability exists. For instance, women of younger age and much older age are both more likely to be victimized, as are those with reduced cognitive or physical capacity due to disability or prior victimization.</span></p>
<p><span>Some factors are more changeable than others, obviously. But even those that appear unchangeable (past abuse) have interventions that can prompt healing. On a general level, </span><span>as reflected above, “a person’s routine and lifestyle inﬂuences the level of exposure one has to potential perpetrators and how vulnerable one is as a target,” as </span><a href="https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/men0000222"><span>Walker, et al., 2020</span></a><span> state. Consequently, “the identiﬁcation of variables that inﬂuence likelihood of (sexual violence) is fundamental for prevention efforts” (</span><a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/369768278_Male_Victims_of_Sexual_Assault_A_Review_of_the_Literature"><span>Thomas &amp; Kopel, 2023</span></a><span>). </span></p>
<h3><b>Alignment with other studies</b></h3>
<p><span>Many of these themes have been identified in other attempts to survey available risk factors, such as a CDC </span><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violence-prevention/media/pdf/resources-for-action/SV-Prevention-Resource_508.pdf"><span>analysis</span></a><span> from 2016, which touched on most of the above patterns, but overlooked the potentially protective role of faith and religiosity.</span></p>
<p><span>This national and international data also align with </span><a href="https://www.usu.edu/uwlp/files/snapshot/42.pdf"><span>demographic data</span></a><span> collected locally in Utah, showing higher vulnerability to sexual violence among women who are homeless, with lower socioeconomic status, using drugs or alcohol, in minority groups, younger, or experiencing some kind of physical or mental impairments.</span></p>
<p><span>One especially impressive University of Washington literature </span><a href="https://www.dcjs.virginia.gov/sites/dcjs.virginia.gov/files/publications/victims/140-164-sexualviolenceriskprotectivefactors.pdf"><span>review from 2017</span></a><span> concluded that the available evidence “reinforces the long-standing notion that sexual aggression is a complex behavior that emerges based on the interplay of multiple risk factors over time.”</span></p>
<p><span>“Additionally,” they note “there are likely very different pathways to the development of sexually aggressive behavior. </span></p>
<p><span>As </span><a href="https://www.dcjs.virginia.gov/sites/dcjs.virginia.gov/files/publications/victims/140-164-sexualviolenceriskprotectivefactors.pdf"><span>Casey &amp; Masters, 2017</span></a><span> conclude, “This means that preventing sexual aggression before it begins necessitates prioritizing multiple risk factors, and bolstering multiple protective factors across individuals and communities.” </span></p>
<p><span>The only real purpose of such study, of course, is taking better steps to protect women from sexual violence. </span></p>
<h3><b>Better data, better prevention</b></h3>
<p><span>The CDC </span><a href="https://careprogram.ucla.edu/education/readings/CDC1"><span>advocated</span></a><span> nearly two decades ago for building a comprehensive ecological model that “offers a framework for understanding the complex interplay of individual, relationship, social, political, cultural, and environmen­tal factors that influence sexual violence” —all of which they note can inform specific intervention and prevention steps.</span></p>
<p><span>In an early </span><a href="https://careprogram.ucla.edu/education/readings/CDC1"><span>2004 exploration</span></a><span> of what sexual violence prevention programs should look like, the CDC called for prevention efforts that “work to modify and/or entirely eliminate the events, conditions, situations, or exposure to influences (risk factors) that result in the initiation of sexual violence” and thereby proactively take steps to “prevent sexual violence from initially occurring.” </span></p>
<p><span>Yet a decade later in 2014, CDC researchers </span><a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1359178914000536"><span>admitted</span></a><span> (as I cited earlier) “rates of sexual violence remain alarmingly high, and we still know very little about how to prevent it,” going on to describe how most prevention efforts were largely “one dimensional” attempts to change individual attitudes, and little more. </span></p>
<p><span>Kathleen C. Basile, Associate Director for Science in the Division of Violence Prevention, in the Center for Injury Prevention and Control at the CDC, told me in an interview with Deseret News, “I would also add that sexual violence, intimate partner violence, all types of violence are preventable, and </span><i><span>the way we prevent them,</span></i><span> like you alluded to earlier, is to understand the size of the problem and who is impacted, and so the characteristics, like who the perpetrators are, who, what age, it happens, things like that” (italics my own). </span></p>
<p><span>In a 2014 review of strategies to prevent sexual violence perpetration, CDC researchers </span><a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1359178914000536"><span>stated</span></a><span> that “the vast majority of preventative interventions evaluated to date have failed to demonstrate sufficient evidence of impact on sexual violence perpetration behaviors.”</span></p>
<p><span>They went on to call for “an evidence-based, comprehensive, multi-level strategy to combat sexual violence,” suggesting that “addressing a broader range of risk and protective factors for sexual violence may be more likely to be effective.”</span></p>
<p><span>Two years later in 2016, the CDC released a prevention resource prevent sexual violence called “</span><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violence-prevention/media/pdf/resources-for-action/SV-Prevention-Resource_508.pdf"><span>STOP SV</span></a><span>”—</span><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violence-prevention/media/pdf/resources-for-action/SV-Prevention-Resource_508.pdf"><span>noting</span></a><span> that although the evidence for sexual violence prevention is “less developed” than other areas of prevention, “a comprehensive approach with preventive interventions at multiple levels of the social ecological model (i.e., individual, relationship, community, and societal) is critical to having a population level impact on SV.” But they noted that evidence remained “limited and must continuously be built through rigorous evaluation.” </span></p>
<p><span>As CDC researchers </span><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violence-prevention/media/pdf/resources-for-action/SV-Prevention-Resource_508.pdf"><span>summarized</span></a><span> in 2016, “Risk for sexual violence perpetration is influenced by a range of factors, including characteristics of the individual and their social and physical environments. These factors interact with one another to increase or decrease risk for SV over time and within specific contexts.” </span></p>
<p><span>CDC researchers also </span><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25403447/"><span>wrote in 2016</span></a><span> that “prevention strategies that address risk and protective factors for sexual violence at the community level are important components of a comprehensive approach,” before lamenting that “few such strategies have been identified or evaluated.” </span></p>
<p><b>Ten life patterns that increase protection </b></p>
<p><a href="https://www.deseret.com/indepth/2025/06/22/reducing-sexual-violence-against-women/"><span>Our review of these root contributors</span></a><span> paints a picture of what deeper strategies of protection would look like. For instance, men who are less educated, financially struggling, addicted, isolated, emotionally unhealthy, promiscuous and spiritually disengaged, are also more likely to perpetrate sexually on vulnerable women.</span></p>
<p><span>There’s also protective power in more fully appreciating that women and men who are better off economically, have good educational experiences, and are embedded within both healthy marriages and supportive communities are less vulnerable to sexual violence. This is doubly true if they also avoid substance abuse and habits of risky, casual sexual relations with multiple people, while nourishing a healthy spiritual foundation.</span></p>
<p><span>Here are the ten steps that follow from this research broken down: </span></p>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Helping lift families and communities out of poverty</li>
<li aria-level="1">Expanding educational opportunities for both women and men</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Helping nurture marriages and families that are healthy and happy</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Providing additional support for younger and larger families</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Helping to prevent compulsivity and support addicts in finding freedom</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Encouraging the value of sexually-exclusive marriages and healthy, non-aggressive masculinity</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Fostering deeper healing for mental health challenges</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Helping those who have experienced earlier abuse to work through post-traumatic symptoms</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Expanding robust community connections and durable social support</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Fostering healthy spirituality and religious connection</li>
</ul>
<p><span>To see a broader summary of concrete steps, go </span><a href="https://www.deseret.com/indepth/2025/06/22/reducing-sexual-violence-against-women/"><span>here for the Deseret News article</span></a><span>. </span><b> </b><span>Some of these ten themes are reflected in a 2016 prevention resource released by the CDC called “</span><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violence-prevention/media/pdf/resources-for-action/SV-Prevention-Resource_508.pdf"><span>STOP SV</span></a><span>.” This resource highlighted research-based recommendations that include efforts to “provide opportunities to empower and support girls and women, support victims/survivors to lessen harms, create protective environments, teach skills to prevent sexual violence and promote social norms that protect against violence.”</span></p>
<p><span>As reflected above, some of the best ways to ensure women remain safe may be to proactively encourage life and community patterns proven to protect against both victimization and perpetration, including:</span></p>
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><span>Healthy marriages that are cooperative and satisfying, surrounded by layers of trustworthy community support.</span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>An atmosphere where education is prioritized and there are adequate resources to provide for the financial needs of the family, while helping both men and women avoid drugs and alcohol, delay sexual behavior until marriage, and learn how to control anger and impulses.</span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span>A hopeful environment that nurtures healing from past trauma and current mental health challenges, while ideally also providing a grounding sense of higher purpose and spiritual meaning.</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span>According to the evidence, women embedded in this kind of a context will be significantly less likely to be sexually victimized (or abused in other ways)—compared with those living within chaotic settings with poor education, financial deficits, fraying marriages, spiritual detachment, few healing resources, rampant substance abuse, sexual promiscuity and out of control anger.</span></p>
<p><span>Just as any vulnerability can be exploited by perpetrators, any time a vulnerability is shored up and turned into a strength, there is more protection against multiple kinds of abuse. Therefore, if we want to get at the roots of sexual victimization, more focus needs to go towards these kinds of protective life patterns, and additional ways to encourage and promote them.</span></p>
<p><i><span>Special thanks to Laura Whitney, Odessa Taylor, Jacob Orse, and Brigham Powelson for helping to gather and sift through published studies, and to Diana Gourley for helping edit the review. In addition to recent support from Deseret News, the author expresses thanks to Public Square Magazine for initial funding for the project.</span></i></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<div class="bottom-notes">If you or someone you love has experienced sexual assault of any kind and need additional support in the U.S., contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline (1-800-656-HOPE)- with virtual and text-based options available. This is a confidential networking service in the U.S. helping connect victims with local agencies who can offer therapeutic support across the country. Similar kinds of hotlines exist in many countries around the world.</div>
<span class="et_bloom_bottom_trigger"></span><p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/sexual-abuse/what-life-patterns-protect-against-sexual-violence/">What Life Patterns Protect Against Sexual Violence?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/sexuality-family/sexual-abuse/what-life-patterns-protect-against-sexual-violence/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 08:01:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80505</guid><title>Public Square Magazine: Caesar’s Dues</title><link>https://publicsquaremag.org/politics-law/politics/caesars-dues/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Connor Hansen</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><span>Many religious conservatives believe the traditional liberal order is failing. And looking at the data, they have a point.</span></p>
<p><span>Many things are moving in the right direction. Since the birth of classical liberalism, global poverty has </span><a href="https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/share-in-poverty-relative-to-different-poverty-thresholds-historical"><span>plummeted</span></a><span> from near 80% to under 9%, life expectancy has </span><a href="https://humanprogress.org/trends/life-expectancy-is-rising/"><span>more than doubled</span></a><span>, and violent crime is at </span><a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/04/24/what-the-data-says-about-crime-in-the-us/"><span>historic lows</span></a><span>. Religious liberty protections in the United States are </span><a href="https://berkleycenter.georgetown.edu/responses/prospects-for-religious-liberty-in-the-united-states-are-bright"><span>stronger</span></a><span> than virtually anywhere in human history.</span></p>
<p><span>But other things are breaking. Teen depression and anxiety rates have </span><a href="https://alliancehf.org/news/what-happened-to-our-youth-after-2010/"><span>doubled</span></a><span> since 2010. Marriage rates have </span><a href="https://www.nationalreview.com/news/u-s-marriage-rate-has-declined-60-percent-since-1970-study-shows/"><span>fallen</span></a><span> nearly 60% since 1970. Birth rates have </span><a href="https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/births-and-deaths"><span>cratered</span></a><span> below replacement levels. Community bonds are </span><a href="https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/disconnected-places-and-spaces/"><span>dissolving</span></a><span>. Loneliness has become </span><a href="about:blank"><span>epidemic</span></a><span>. Political polarization has </span><a href="https://www.cam.ac.uk/stories/political-division-united-states"><span>intensified</span></a><span> to levels not seen since the Civil War era.</span></p>
<p><span>The family, the fundamental unit of society, struggles to survive in a culture that treats it as optional at best and oppressive at worst. Meaning structures that sustained civilization for millennia are weakening or disappearing entirely.</span></p>
<p><span>Secular liberalism promised neutral public spaces where diverse communities could coexist peacefully, but in practice those &#8220;neutral&#8221; spaces often became vehicles for harmful ideologies hostile to traditional religion and the virtue that flows from it. Public schools teach gender theory as settled science. Corporate HR departments enforce progressive orthodoxy. Administrative agencies regulate religious institutions. The state did not remain neutral. It just changed which comprehensive vision it enforces.</span></p>
<p><span>So the question religious conservatives are asking is reasonable: If secular institutions have failed to form virtue and preserve what matters most, shouldn&#8217;t we use government to restore what is being lost?</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Coercion can never produce true goodness.</p></blockquote></div><br />
Many on the right are answering yes. If progressive ideology uses state power to advance its vision, we should use state power to </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/politics-law/political-atmosphere/why-christian-nationalism-threatens-freedom/"><span>advance ours</span></a><span>. If secular institutions fail to form character, religious institutions backed by law should step in. If the family is collapsing, perhaps government should incentivize or even mandate family structures.</span></p>
<p><span>I understand this impulse. I share the alarm.</span></p>
<p><span>But as a Latter-day Saint, I believe we should take a different path. Coercion can never produce true goodness; it can only compel outward behavior. If we want to build a better society and protect our way of life in the long term, a more liberty-centric approach to cultural change is the best path forward.</span></p>
<h3><b>Liberty as a Familiar Alternative</b></h3>
<p><span>This does not mean abandoning virtue, family, or community. It means getting government out of domains where it has failed and trusting voluntary institutions to do the work that actually transforms lives. This approach has two complementary commitments:</span></p>
<p><span>First, </span><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/dialogue/history/constitution-day-why-matters-faith/"><span>protect liberty</span></a><span> fiercely in the public sphere. Limit what government controls. Prevent majorities from using state power to enforce their vision on minorities. Ensure that families, churches, communities, and voluntary associations have the freedom to operate according to their values without government either forcing them to compromise those values </span><i><span>or</span></i><span> forcing others to adopt them.</span></p>
<p><span>Second, fight the battle for virtue in the private sphere. Build families so strong that people want to emulate them. Create churches so compelling that people choose to join them. Demonstrate through your life that virtue produces joy, meaning, and flourishing. Compete and win in a marketplace of free thought and association. We should not use state power to mandate virtue. We should prove through voluntary excellence that our way of life produces human flourishing and invite others to join us freely.</span></p>
<p><span>For Latter-day Saints specifically, this should feel natural. We are a tiny religious minority that thrives when government protects our liberty to worship, organize, build institutions, and live according to our values. We suffer when majorities use state power to enforce their vision of righteousness.</span></p>
<p><span>The liberty we preserve for others to make decisions we disagree with is the same liberty that protects our ability to live our peculiar religion. Liberty is not just morally right. It is the most durable protection we can give to our way of life. It is also where our theology points.  </span></p>
<h3><b>Liberty in God’s Plan</b></h3>
<p><span>The most fundamental question in Latter-day Saint theology is also the most politically relevant: What is the purpose of existence?</span></p>
<p><span>We believe humans can become divine beings. If the purpose of existence is transformation into beings with infinite potential, then moral agency is not optional—it is the necessary mechanism by which transformation happens.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Our scripture shows us how the righteous should tolerate error.</p></blockquote></div><br />
You cannot force someone to become godly. Coerced compliance does not develop divine capacity. It produces obedience without understanding, behavior without character, conformity without transformation. God is independently good; His holiness flows from what He is, not from rules imposed on Him. If we are supposed to become like that, we must learn to choose righteousness freely, internalizing virtue until it becomes our nature, not just our compliance.</span></p>
<p><span>The War in Heaven expands our understanding of this. In the premortal council, Lucifer promised to save everyone by eliminating agency entirely. God rejected this plan—not because it would not produce behavioral compliance, but because it would destroy what He is trying to create: beings capable of independent righteousness. God chose agency knowing some would fail because the alternative would destroy the very purpose of existence. </span></p>
<p><span>That answer is not emotionally satisfying. Liberty is costly. But if God chose agency despite its risks, we cannot justify using coercion to produce virtue.</span></p>
<p><span>Our scripture shows us how the righteous should tolerate error. Alma 30:7-11 describes Nephite prophets facing false teachers willfully corrupting souls. God&#8217;s command? They are explicitly forbidden from using law to control religious belief: &#8220;there was no law against a man&#8217;s belief.&#8221; Here God refused to let even His prophet use state power to create forced virtue.</span></p>
<p><span>Doctrine and Covenants 121 makes this structural: &#8220;No power or influence can or ought to be maintained by virtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned.&#8221; Notice: &#8220;can or ought.&#8221; Not just &#8220;should not&#8221;—</span><i><span>cannot.</span></i><span> Coercion breaks divine authority. This is not a temporary accommodation for mortality. It reveals something eternal about righteous power.</span></p>
<p><span>Living prophets affirm this often. In his October 2025 General Conference </span><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2025/10/51bednar"><span>address</span></a><span>, Elder David A. Bednar taught about the “eternal importance of moral agency” which he defined as “the </span><i><span>divinely designed</span></i><span> power of independent action that empowers us as God’s children to become agents to act and not simply objects to be acted upon.&#8221; </span></p>
<p><span>And in prior times of cultural turmoil, prophets have made it clear this extends to the political. President Ezra Taft Benson </span><a href="https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/ezra-taft-benson/constitution-heavenly-banner/"><span>warned</span></a><span>: &#8220;one of Lucifer&#8217;s primary strategies has been to restrict our </span><i><span>agency</span></i><span> through the power of earthly </span><i><span>governments.</span></i><span>&#8221; He did not isolate left-wing tyranny, but any use of state power to coerce private virtue.</span></p>
<p><span>Our history teaches the same lesson. For our entire history, we have been a religious minority headquartered in a Christian majority nation. When Christian majorities wielded state power to enforce their vision of virtue, we were often the targets. Missouri&#8217;s governor ordered our &#8220;extermination.&#8221; Joseph and Hyrum were murdered by a mob that believed they were defending Christian civilization. This was state power wielded by Christians convinced their religious vision justified coercion. When we are tempted to use government to restore virtue, we should remember we know exactly what that looks like from the other side.</span></p>
<h3><b>The Risks of Reaching for State Power</b></h3>
<p><span>Reaching for state power instead carries serious risks. First, you hand those with views opposed to yours the blueprint. Every tool you build, every precedent you establish, every expansion of government power you create to enforce your values becomes available to your opponents when they win elections. And they will win elections.</span></p>
<p><span>You might establish laws promoting traditional marriage. They will use the same state machinery to enforce gender ideology in schools. You might require religious education in public schools. They will mandate intersectional social justice curriculum. The power does not stay in your hands. It transfers. And when it does, you will face the very machinery you have built to advance </span><i><span>their</span></i><span> values.</span></p>
<p><span><div class="perfect-pullquote vcard pullquote-align-right pullquote-border-placement-left"><blockquote><p>Our theology teaches that transformation requires freely chosen action.</p></blockquote></div><br />
The authority you claim to enforce your values is the identical authority that will be used to suppress them. The liberty you extend to others to build institutions you disagree with is the same liberty that protects our Church’s freedom to operate. The most durable defense to our LDS community is not winning the culture war through state power. It is ensuring state power cannot be used to settle cultural questions at all.</span></p>
<p><span>Second, you teach the next generation that politics determines virtue. Once you establish that state power is the proper tool for cultural formation, the only question becomes: who has more votes? </span></p>
<p><span>Third, you signal that voluntary persuasion is not sufficient. If Christianity truly produces human flourishing, why do you need state enforcement?</span></p>
<p><span>The gospel succeeds through attraction, not compulsion. People become Christians because they encounter Christ and recognize Him as the source of life abundant. They join churches because they see communities living with joy, purpose, and love that they want for themselves.</span></p>
<p><span>When you reach for state power to enforce religious values, you are announcing that attraction is not working. You are saying your faith cannot compete on its merits in a free marketplace of ideas. That is spiritually devastating. If we really believed that truth freely chosen would prevail, we would not need state coercion.</span></p>
<p><span>All of this is to render unto Caesar what is God’s.</span></p>
<h3><b>The Path Forward</b></h3>
<p><span>We are facing real and serious problems. The concerns driving religious conservatives toward government solutions are legitimate and urgent. </span></p>
<p><span>But Latter-day Saints have unique resources to see why that response is both theologically wrong and strategically unwise.</span></p>
<p><span>Our theology teaches that transformation requires freely chosen action, not coerced compliance. Our scripture commands tolerance even of false teachers. Our prophets warn against restricting agency through government. Our history shows what happens when Christian majorities wield state power to enforce virtue.</span></p>
<p><span>Let’s build the Kingdom of God through persuasion, not coercion. Let the state protect rights while God transforms lives through voluntary institutions. Compete in the marketplace of ideas with confidence that truth, freely chosen, will prevail.</span></p>
<p><span>God chose liberty over guaranteed outcomes in the War in Heaven because agency matters more than safety and freedom matters more than forced righteousness. As Latter-day Saints, we should understand why that choice was right and why we must make it in our politics today.</span></p>
<p><span>Let&#8217;s start rendering unto God what is God&#8217;s.</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<span class="et_bloom_bottom_trigger"></span><p>The post <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/politics-law/politics/caesars-dues/">Caesar’s Dues</a> appeared first on <a href="https://publicsquaremag.org">Public Square Magazine</a>.</p><br/><a href="https://publicsquaremag.org/politics-law/politics/caesars-dues/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item><item><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0700</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:nothingwavering.org,2009-01-12:_80487</guid><title>LDS365: Easter Resources For Your Family</title><link>https://lds365.com/2026/03/20/easter-resources-for-your-family/</link><author>noreply@nothingwavering.org (No Reply)</author><dc:creator>Larry Richman</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-58568" src="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/easter.jpg" alt="easter-jesus-christ" width="800" height="450" srcset="https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/easter.jpg 800w, https://lds365.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/easter-480x270.jpg 480w" sizes="(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 800px, 100vw" /></p>
<p>This Sunday, March 29, is Palm Sunday, and the following Sunday, April 5, is Easter. This article provides references to Church resources you can share with your family.</p>
<p>Since general conference will be held on Easter Sunday, sacrament meetings on Palm Sunday will commemorate the Savior’s Atonement and Resurrection. Be sure to invite friends, family, and neighbors to join in these worship services. Downloadable templates for signage and invitations to help with planning and celebrating Palm Sunday, Easter, and Holy Week can be found on the Church&#8217;s <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/welcome/easter/resources?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Easter resources page</a>. Also, see the article &#8220;<a href="https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/palm-sunday-and-easter-worship-services-aim-to-spread-god-s-greater-love" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Palm Sunday and Easter Worship Services Aim to Spread God’s ‘Greater Love’</a>.&#8221;</p>
<h1>Easter Resources</h1>
<ul>
<li>First Presidency <a href="https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/first-presidencys-2026-easter-message" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Easter message</a></li>
<li>&#8220;<a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/easter?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Easter</a>&#8221; in Topics and Questions</li>
<li><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/collection/easter-holiday?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Easter videos</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/collection/easter-images?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Easter images</a></li>
<li>A <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/welcome/easter/resources?lang=eng">Holy Week study guide</a> can help people learn more about the Savior’s love.</li>
<li>On Easter Sunday, enjoy “<a href="https://www.thetabernaclechoir.org/music-and-the-spoken-word-weekly-broadcast?lang=eng">Music and the Spoken Word</a>.”</li>
<li>Invite people to visit <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist" target="_blank" rel="noopener">ComeUntoChrist.org</a> to learn more about the Savior of the World.</li>
<li>Enjoy Easter music and video playlists on the Church’s <a href="https://www.youtube.com/churchofjesuschrist" target="_blank" rel="noopener">YouTube</a>, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/strivetobe" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Strive to Be</a>, and <a href="https://lds365.com/2023/09/18/gospel-stream-the-churchs-new-tv-mobile-streaming-app-allows-safe-viewing-of-church-videos-broadcasts/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Gospel Stream</a> channels.</li>
<li>See &#8220;<a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2026/03/06-20-ideas-for-your-easter-season?lang=eng" target="_blank" rel="noopener">20 Ideas for Your Easter Season</a>.&#8221;</li>
<li><a href="https://www.ldsliving.com/watch-free-easter-lesson-for-families-to-learn-about-christ/s/13168" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Easter lesson for families to learn about Christ</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.ldsliving.com/7-faith-based-easter-activities-inspired-by-traditions-from-around-the-world/s/13176" target="_blank" rel="noopener">7 Easter activities inspired by traditions from around the world</a></li>
<li>New children&#8217;s book <em><a href="https://centurypubl.com/the-easter-bunny-shows-us-how-to-follow-jesus/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Easter Bunny Shows Us How to Follow Jesus</a>.</em></li>
<li><a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/friend/2026/03/08-easter-activities-challenge" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Easter Activities</a> in <em>The Friend</em></li>
<li>Watch a <a href="https://lds365.com/2025/02/16/video-president-oaks-easter-reflection-on-christs-sacrifice-and-resurrection/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">video by President Oaks Reflecting on Christ’s Sacrifice and Resurrection</a>.</li>
<li>Watch the Easter video “<a href="https://youtu.be/8KCUs7oJxjc" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Good News</a>,” depicts the morning when Mary Magdalene became the first witness of the most pivotal event of all human history—the Resurrection of Jesus Christ. Her joy then reflects our joy today as we celebrate the hope, healing, and forgiveness that is made possible #BecauseOfHim.</li>
</ul>
<p><iframe loading="lazy" title="YouTube video player" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/CzPZ9PRE0WE?si=uLuexUuua1G6mv5v" width="800" height="450" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"><span data-mce-type="bookmark" class="mce_SELRES_start">﻿</span></iframe></p>
<p><iframe loading="lazy" title="YouTube video player" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/8KCUs7oJxjc" width="800" height="450" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" data-mce-fragment="1"><span data-mce-type="bookmark" class="mce_SELRES_start">﻿</span></iframe></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>The post <a href="https://lds365.com/2026/03/20/easter-resources-for-your-family/">Easter Resources For Your Family</a> first appeared on <a href="https://lds365.com">LDS365: Resources from the Church & Latter-day Saints worldwide</a>.<br/><a href="https://lds365.com/2026/03/20/easter-resources-for-your-family/">Continue reading at the original source →</a>]]></description></item></channel></rss>